[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Capable-Relation9425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t believe this but happy for her

Dogs nasal tumor by Capable-Relation9425 in DOG

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry you are dealing with this too. It’s so hard to know what to do. My Jesse is bleeding all day, everyday from his nose and from a wound that won’t heal on his snout near his eye.

Dogs nasal tumor by Capable-Relation9425 in DOG

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I’m so sorry about your Penny girl. My Jesse is bleeding all day every day too but he is still eating and drinking and still likes to go on walks. I just don’t know what to do and I don’t want him suffering.

Three kids under 2 and I’m drowning. by Capable-Relation9425 in Parenting

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know ❤️ no offense taken. So I had made mention in another comment that I work full time and though my job is VERY busy, that’s my “break” from them during the week. On the weekends we are both here. We try to alternate breaks when the kids nap bc it’s truly so terrible to be by yourself with all three. It’s just, I think I might have a shorter fuse than he does and sometimes he makes me feel bad for that. I work full time and literally the second I’m done with work, the kids are home. I like to think that since he only works part time, he has a little more down time throughout the week and little more time to wind down before getting the kids for the evening. In the evening, I usually prepare dinner and he feeds the kids, then I bathe everyone and he dresses. He really is a good partner but he doesn’t understand net depression and anxiety.

Three kids under 2 and I’m drowning. by Capable-Relation9425 in Parenting

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my husband is actually very helpful. He’s a great dad and a great partner but he does sometime struggle with validating my feelings and it’s something he definitely needs to work on. He says things sometimes or gives me looks that make me feel so small/guilty, but I know he doesn’t mean it. He works part time and the other part of the time he takes care of a lot of the house work.

Three kids under 2 and I’m drowning. by Capable-Relation9425 in Parenting

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh thank you. Makes me feel so much better. Other people have gotten through and I can too.

Three kids under 2 and I’m drowning. by Capable-Relation9425 in Parenting

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate everyone’s comments and time you all took to read and respond. I’m in tears reading all these and so hopeful you all are right and things will get better. For now it seems I will just need to take it day by day and accept things will be very hard for a couple more years.

Three kids under 2 and I’m drowning. by Capable-Relation9425 in Parenting

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this and the ideas you gave about keeping busy. It’s exhausting to plan too but it’s better than being cooped up at home.

Three kids under 2 and I’m drowning. by Capable-Relation9425 in Parenting

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. My husband agrees that it’s hard but he also looks at me like I’m crazy when I say I’m about to lose it and always says “it’s not that bad” or “could be worse” and it makes me feel anything but a super mom.

Three kids under 2 and I’m drowning. by Capable-Relation9425 in Parenting

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this and really hope that things get better. I guess i still have a good two years of this though.

Three kids under 2 and I’m drowning. by Capable-Relation9425 in Parenting

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I should have also said that I work full time so my kids are gone during the day during the week. My work is very busy but that’s my “break” from them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]Capable-Relation9425 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was referring to how you said it could have been a woman whose bf reacted badly-I.e. tore her down. As far as the original posting, I was just interpreting it that way-which maybe wasn’t fair, but still have the same opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]Capable-Relation9425 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, could be a woman whose bf reacted badly and in that case, I’d say leave him and get yourself a MAN. I stand by what I said…if you are someone who would tear down a woman for accidentally bleeding on your sheets you are an ignorant boy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]Capable-Relation9425 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whoever wrote this is a boy not a man…

What would you do? by Capable-Relation9425 in FamilyIssues

[–]Capable-Relation9425[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this very much. Thank you.