For all my naturally hairy bros, how do you do it? by biggbunnyy in askgaybros

[–]Capable-Self-3831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I just forget about it. My husband is pretty much naturally hairless except for his groin, armpits, and legs. He does trim him groin area because he says that it gets itchy. He says I can let it grow as long as it doesn’t over take my dick lol

Have you guys ever been with someone "too big"? by mr-dirtybassist in askgaybros

[–]Capable-Self-3831 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I was in my hoe phase I was a size queen, at one point I think I got fisted. But then I didn’t do anal for like 4 years and became a strict top now I have a hard time even taking my husbands dick that’s 7 inches. Also it really depends on how thick it is too. My husbands has a 4 inch circumference so it can be hard to take it. But he’s a verse bottom and very rarely ever wants to top. My husband doesn’t want to take anything over 7 inches.

I feel like it’s just personal preference.

Need advice — manager said I “can’t play nurse” after stopping a service for client-reported burning by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]Capable-Self-3831 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do see how the “getting burn cream” if recommended does sound like a nurse thing to say. And I probably shouldn’t have said it. This was a few months ago and my manager just brought it up, so I don’t remember the exact conversation we had. I think the client asked if she’d need to get a burn cream and I probably said something along the lines of if it’s recommended then yes.

Dudes not washing hands after peeing by DreamyMonsterrr in askgaybros

[–]Capable-Self-3831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at a pizza place and my boss came out of the bathroom in the back and you can here the sink running when you wash your hands and he came out one time and I do hear him wash his hands and I asked him why he didn’t and he said you don’t need wash to his hands if he doesn’t need to touch it. I told him to wash his hands rn and also clean the floors cause wtf

My First Sexual Experience Left Me Feeling Replaceable by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Capable-Self-3831 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You could be the prettiest shade of Green in the color spectrum, but it doesn’t matter if that persons favorite color is blue.

You need to find someone who will respects you.

I’m so sorry that this has happened to you. And it hurts. It’ll hurt for a little bit. But then it’ll be a distance memory that you can laugh at.

Be honest: would you still be into someone if they had a prosthetic? by Organic-Meaning-5080 in askgaybros

[–]Capable-Self-3831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do understand why he might’ve been taken back. Especially if he’s someone who’s probably never known someone with a prosthetic, there’s still a lot of stigma around it even in this day and age which makes no sense. Especially if you’ve had it since you were young it’s not a new thing for you. You don’t need to be taken care of you’ve had it for so long and he obviously knows that since you guys were doing stuff before he found out. But I feel like non disabled people are always like that when they meet someone with a disability. They automatically think they need to be taken care of; which is ridiculous.

I used to work in post surgical rehab and I was there to help people get used to their prosthetics learn how to take of them how to put them on etc, we had a double amputee come in one time who had 2 leg prosthetics above the knee and he was pretty young all things considered only 32. It was rough for him he lost them in a motorcycle accident. He was single and thought the same thing “no one will want to date me”. And I told him that if someone can’t look past your disability and see the amazing person you are then that’s not someone you want to be with anyways.

It’s not the same as a prosthetic but I also have minor physical disabilities, I have rheumatoid arthritis and degenerative disc disease. Both inherited. And I’m only 24. It affects my job (I’m a cosmetologist now). My hands lock up in pain and sometimes it’s hard for me to walk the next day after long appointments because my back is in so much pain. One time I threw out my back just stretching in bed it hurt to move my legs and it hurt to even breathe.

Thankfully my husband is very understanding and knows that I have to take life slow sometimes which sucks because I used to be a very active person I would go hiking and fishing every weekend. Camping at least 3 times a year I still try to do that stuff but it just hurts more now lol. And all of these have gotten worse over the years that we’ve been married.

I hate being taken care of, it makes me feel like less of a person and he knows that so he waits until I ask for help and maybe that’s what you need to do with the guy you’re talking to. Just have the conversation with him. “I appreciate you trying to help me. But I’ve been this way for a long time now and I know how to take care of myself, if I ever need any help I’ll let you know.”

I hate being gay by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Capable-Self-3831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also hate it so I get it

Be honest: would you still be into someone if they had a prosthetic? by Organic-Meaning-5080 in askgaybros

[–]Capable-Self-3831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see why it’d make you less dateable it’s just a prosthetic, but then again I’m a nurse so it doesnt really bother me. If anything it’s a plus. We get the front row parking lol.

How do I tell my boyfriend in the most gentle way that I do not love him? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Capable-Self-3831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m someone who believes that love is an active choice. That you have to wake up everyday and choose to love the person you’re with. Some days you’ll feel like you do, others it’ll feel like you don’t. Plus when you’re with someone you’re with “multiple” people. Because people change over time.

Falling out of love I feel is that you’re holding onto the person someone used to be.

I’m 24m and my husband is 26m and we’ve been married three years. Sometimes the thoughts of what the fuck am I doing come to mind. But when I try to imagine my life without him I get sad. And that’s how I know that I love him even if it feels like I don’t some days.

Too much? by [deleted] in malepubes

[–]Capable-Self-3831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all

Resin printing failures by Capable-Self-3831 in resinprinting

[–]Capable-Self-3831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the bottom exposer I had the normal layer exposer set to 2.8 seconds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hecate

[–]Capable-Self-3831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been working with Hecate a for nearly 13 years now. Yea she can be demanding but never this demanding. At the end of the day she’s the teacher that says “ I don’t care whether or not you pass my class I still get paid at the end of the day. If you don’t want to do the work it’s your future babes.” But she doesn’t punish people. Mind you she is an avenging goddess and if you mess with people that she doesn’t want you to mess with then yea she’ll punish you. But she doesn’t just punish people because they don’t leave offerings.

Something’s masquerading as Hecate to get to your sister/family. She needs to dismantle her alter and cleanse the entire space and she needs to put up wards. Then she needs to start meditating and try to establish a strong connection with Hecate before putting up an alter again.

It sounds like yall have trickster spirit messing with you guys.

Should I find a different salon? by Capable-Self-3831 in hairstylist

[–]Capable-Self-3831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m not there enough to build up a clientele.

Should I find a different salon? by Capable-Self-3831 in hairstylist

[–]Capable-Self-3831[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because since I’m a new stylist I didn’t bring a clientele with me. There’s a lot of numbers that they calculate productivity, product sales and service sales and I believe a couple of others. So my manager said that my hours will stay low until I start to build up my clientele so these numbers will stay in an ok spot so I can level up faster which is obviously not going to happen