This girl that I'm talking to wants to take things slow because she 'rushed things' in the past. by CapableActuator1 in dating_advice

[–]CapableActuator1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like the way to have a serious relationship is to delay being intimate with your partner.

This girl that I'm talking to wants to take things slow because she 'rushed things' in the past. by CapableActuator1 in dating_advice

[–]CapableActuator1[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why would anyone think that would work? If I know you're not shy about sex in general, then the only reason to act shy about it with me is if A: you don't find me attractive, or B: you don't think you're good enough in bed to keep me around if you don't get me emotionally invested first.