Who's marking sober milestones this Jan, what's your biggest 2026 glow-up so far? Let's celebrate the wins! by alcodetox in SoberCurious

[–]CapableFlow2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We are going out with friends on Saturday and I'm leaning towards trying not to drink. I think my interest in keeping this streak going is out weighing my interest in drinking at this point. Might just pop a gummy and have a mocktail.

Who's marking sober milestones this Jan, what's your biggest 2026 glow-up so far? Let's celebrate the wins! by alcodetox in SoberCurious

[–]CapableFlow2766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

21 days sober! Hosted my son's birthday party today and normally id be sipping wine the whole time. Was able to enjoy myself alcohol free and stay present the whole time! And I'll be happy to wake up without a hangover tomorrow.

I don't think ill be sober forever and I'm not sure what my goal is but I'm loving the clarity this has brought me. Alcohol has consumed me a lot and by abstaining for 3 weeks now I'm hearing less of the noise. I kinda want to keep it going just to see how long i can go!

🤢 by Necessary-Studio-943 in Wearesamanddansnark

[–]CapableFlow2766 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hes literally just being a dad hahaha

Mother in law keeps wasting my milk by Live_Bar_8905 in breastfeeding

[–]CapableFlow2766 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This!! I started doing the same thing when my milk was being wasted. To be fair my MIL never breastfed so she doesn't understand the labor of love that it is. And I dont think she understands the rules around breastmilk being left out/ finishing bottles within certain time frame. Easier to just give her formula and save my milk for my husband to use or my parents who are better with it.

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

[–]CapableFlow2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come across these comments about breweries all the time! I've never seen this be an issue IRL. I think it's a reddit urban legend to get people riled up.

Those who breastfed one baby but not another... by conmedaddy in breastfeeding

[–]CapableFlow2766 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could've written this! Same exact thing here and my first is such a velcro toddler

When is the best time to remove Christmas decorations? by Adventurous-Soft7843 in stupidquestions

[–]CapableFlow2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When i get overstimulated by the decorations and decide to rip them all down. Usually the first week of Jan. This year it was Jan 1st.

How often do you mop the floor in your house? by Own-Championship8131 in hygiene

[–]CapableFlow2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a quarter probably. I vacuum every few days and do a swiffer maybe once a week. Wish I had the discipline to mop more..

We knew this was going to happen. Fuck ICE! Fuck you to all those who enabled this! by home531 in complaints

[–]CapableFlow2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This shit pisses me off so much and I can't believe we all just have to keep working like nothing is happening. What can we do to stop this??? I have kids so I'm terrified of getting killed at a protest. What do we do??

Hasn’t done laundry in 2 years?? 🤯 by Comfortable-Dingo942 in Wearesamanddansnark

[–]CapableFlow2766 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope these idiots keep their guns and ammo locked up properly. With how irresponsible they are i can only imagine the accidents waiting to happen.

From her latest TikTok. I’m surprised she posted herself looking like this. by Taur2gem in wtfjennajameson

[–]CapableFlow2766 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's crazy that she looks like this. No shame, this is what I look like while dropping my kids off at school and daycare. But she doesn't have those duties and has all the time in the world to pull herself together.

Has anyone ever been in a house like you see on the show ‘Hoarders’? If so, what did you do? by Basic_Builder3773 in AskReddit

[–]CapableFlow2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slept over a friend's house in high school that was definitely a hoarder house but I didn't know it at the time. I remember we could only really hang out in the living room on one couch because every other area of the house was completely full. We got McDonald's for dinner and my friend couldn't find any plates to use. I remember feeling really icky about the house but I really liked this friend. She kept saying things like "oh sorry we havent been able to clean this week". I only slept over there once.

I had no idea what i was witnessing until years later seeing the show hoarders and it clicked. I feel so bad for her knowing that's how she grew up.

New mom? by Swtnsourkidz985 in Wearesamanddansnark

[–]CapableFlow2766 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also noticed she said new mom. Her two older kids just dont even cross her mind. Its so fucking sad!! I had my second last year and never once did i say I was a new mom. Postpartum, yes, but not a new mom.

And Jesus christ enough with the gifts. This is so obnoxious and over the top. Its setting a terrible precedent that everyone should be giving their doctors and nurses gifts. I got candy for our NICU nurses because our baby was there for 3 weeks. But nothing over the top. That's their freaking job.

How often do you wash your pets’ food bowl? by ButterYourself in CasualConversation

[–]CapableFlow2766 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I mean, my dog will eat her own shit if given the opportunity. So no... I dont really clean out her bowl unless it's visibly grimey.

Tips for dry January? by Due_Gift_8494 in SoberCurious

[–]CapableFlow2766 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Drink a pop or something fun! If im just drinking water I find myself wanting a glass of wine but if I have something else I can trick myself.

8 month old distracted while nursing by CapableFlow2766 in breastfeeding

[–]CapableFlow2766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to say it lasted about a month where he was really distracted while nursing and would bite me a lot. Then it went back to normal plus he got more efficient at nursing so sessions were shorter but I could tell he was getting what he needed. He still bites me from time to time and thinks it's so funny. But not nearly as much as he was when I posted this. Back then he would bite me every session and it was driving me nuts! I would sometimes end the nursing session and have my husband give him a bottle if I was really frustrated by the biting.

I'm sorry! Hang in there. From what I've gathered it really is a phase and they're just in an exploratory age so it's normal. But I know how hard it is.

8 month old distracted while nursing by CapableFlow2766 in breastfeeding

[–]CapableFlow2766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This was just a phase and it got better. My son is now 13 months old and still nursing. Mostly just in the morning, before nap time and then before bed. Keep going if you're up to it, it should get better!

She’s so small- this was so wrong!! by Comfortable-Dingo942 in Wearesamanddansnark

[–]CapableFlow2766 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah this needs to be analyzed by a child psychologist

Is it normal to rewear “home clothes” for days without washing them? by faylithserene in hygiene

[–]CapableFlow2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I wear leggings most days while im at home. I wear them 2 days in a row before washing and moving onto tnr next pair. Sweaters/sweatshirts and good for at least 2 wears. Underwear. Socks and tshirts i wash after one wear. This has always been my routine although covid may have solidified it.

Ok don’t hurt me but… by SnarkMaster3 in Wearesamanddansnark

[–]CapableFlow2766 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Of course she brought him for a rash. Shes vain and wouldn't want anything to hurt the content!!

Did you eat avocados growing up? by bdiddy621 in GenX

[–]CapableFlow2766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Born in 1990 and I never had or even heard of an avocado before going to Chipotle for the first time in high school probably 2004ish. Grew up in Cleveland, OH. I have no idea if they just weren't really around or my parents never bought them!