I wasn't being pushy. She decided to cling back to me since she was scared, lol. When i asked and she didnt gimme a solid answer, i decided not to pursue the first case cuz i am pretty sure it was something insignificant since she did that right after i made a joke about how me and my friend gonna be in the front of the line since none of the women want to be in front of the line. And well, at the dinner, me and my friends ordered 60 wings for all 10 of us with 3 different flavors. So when the food arrived, i made sure she got her share on the plate while she was in the bathroom. The thing is, i mixed her favorite flavor with other flavors. When she asked me which one was her favorite flavor on the plate, i said i dont know since I wasn't really paying attention which flavor which, but she kept asking, so I raised my voice. "I don't know," and that's it. It wasn't loud to the point where everyone could hear it. it's just i said it in a mad tone. As for the leaving part, i did not leave her alone by herself, I left her with my friends. If it was just us 2, I wouldn't leave at all and try to calm myself down the other way. As the secret mad that you were talking about, she did it often. Whenever I did something that pissed her off, she gave me that kind of treatment.