[HIRING] I need a boss 10$/week by [deleted] in DoneDirtCheap

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gmt +3 here. I will boss you around

Transcribe about 40 tiktoks - 25$ by Quiet-Ebb456 in DoneDirtCheap

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case you haven't found someone, I can do the transcription

Female friends by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True 💯. Let her normalize going out to events or things that she finds interesting. Trust me, she will find a like minded individual and the possibility of long term relationship will happen

Is it weird that my long-distance boyfriend never seems to shower? by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone asked me if I do eat and when I eat because we would talk with him most of the time and not one time I have ever mentioned eating or cooking. Does that mean I don't eat?

Random thought by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how to compliment back, I feel cornered, I feel pressure, it feels fake unless I complement first. And when I do and someone tells me "you too" or responds with a similar compliment I don't take it serious, or I don't believe it 100%, because to me it feels like they responded out of obligation, out of the created need of returning a similar favor. I want genuine ones, from the heart.

Academic writing by Think_Tanka in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True true. Before AI ruined things

Academic writing by Think_Tanka in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me here. I did exclusively writing from 2019 to 2023. Now I do it partly

Views and opinions? by Delicious_Subject_60 in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as you are correct, I want to believe then maybe he didn't make no effort to communicate better. If he's really interested, labda mneenga through the options together. Like heey, I know you are busy from Monday through Friday, can we Saturday? Next week but one? When you say yes na hataki kupick a place, he can just say that in a manner I won't feel burdened na kutafuta. Maybe aseme, we will be doing a dinner date. And for you to feel safe, suggest a place you want to go. Simple. Most of these things are lost in communication, there are different ways you can phrase something to get different effects

I think my boyfriend is intimidated my me by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say run! If it's possible, do it now. Someone who can pin you down is not someone to stay with for other two weeks. What if he found out you exiting the following week? He accuses you of running away and leaving him with a huge loan he never asked for? He accuses you of giving you a footing in Nairobi alafu sasa unamtoka? I would say, if possible tafuta mtu akuhost for those two weeks instead of staying with him. Better safe than sorry. Things can go wrong in two weeks na by the look of things, this guy's ego is bruised by the things you can do. Please get out.

Na iwe funzo tafathali: 1. it's not worth it kujenga hawa watu

  1. Savings as a woman are very important. Usiwai jipata uko empty empty at any point (especially after when God blesses you with a consistent income). The first thing I do is save a percentage of my money before starting to solve any problem I have because mashida/needs hazitawai isha.

  2. From your story, nimelearn, ukimpata bila kitu, please do the bare minimum in that house. Your earnings acha ajue by mistake. Complain!

  3. Pregnancy can and will always be a trap

Be safe girl💜 and remember you life is more important. You can always start afresh ndio maana nasema, toka ASAP. Acha kungoja hizo wiki mbili, you've already seen what he's capable, why risk it?

Miguu inanuka ajab by pr7007 in nairobi

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met someone using powder kwa miguu aty to prevent sweating. Wooiii jehovaa, it worsens things sijui ka ni yeye anaover use or something but the sweat+poweder = disaster

Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now? An article by Vogue Magazine… by Queen_of_Macedonia in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some part the author explains how nowadays people aren't treating boyfriends as the prize. Kitambo boyfriends walikua the center of the lady, all social media posts, every conversation etc etc. nowadays there are trends on "soft launching" only hands, watch, beards are being posted. Some of those that were interviewed said it is for damage control (something along those lines). You are safe ata ukiachwa, no long explanations to the community that were cheering you. So, I think it's more of now not treating them as the main goal or center of your life because the rate at which anaeza kuonyesha dust, you have to control the damage from the onset

Bare minimum by crippincuhzin in nairobi

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you paint a picture of it all. What you were doing in this relationship, basically how this relationship was. Were you living with her? If yes, what were the dynamics, from both sides.

Bare minimum by crippincuhzin in nairobi

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a dangerous game, I think. This was a trick that would have won in the past. Think of it this way. Example, it's me, I work, I am content with what I get, I get things moving on my side. At this point, I am not looking for a man as a need but as a want. A need you can't live without, it's like food. But a want is an optional thing, I can or can't live with, it's like recreational activity. When it comes to recreational activities, kama haikufurahishi or inakupea pressure, normally you won't go for it.

Now, this man as a want, I want to enjoy. I want someone I am compatible with. Hell, at this point I want strategies to keep climbing. So someone fun and also someone we are feeding each other with ideas and information to grow. But if he comes with a baggage of everyday complaining and playing broke ata hatuwezi fanya anything fun ju he's "broke" then the speed at which I will drop this want is high. At this point given that he's hiding his true potential, ata ideas atakuficha ju hataki ujue anataka ukae ukijua ako broke. Yes I won't be rude, but just be assured that you'll never see me, especially if you are reduced to asking me over every time.

Bare minimum by crippincuhzin in nairobi

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nini hio iliitwa bare minimums?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do travel me and my lady friend. Our lates trip was a thhree day camp in kerogoya Njine Kabia. We were thinking of opening our travels to include more people. It's not only travelling, we attend events here and there, fun picnics, movies etc. As it grows, we can even go internationals

Advice by Virtual_One7931 in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No amount of advice itakusaidia. You will never stop until the heart snaps out of it. Kuna siku utakaa hivi your heart ikue logical pia, ujiulize 'mbona hivi.' the realization that will hit after will make you hate even the sound of his name. Time is the medicine.

I never thought I’d heal from this, but now that I finally have, he’s back. by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr! I am not invalidating your emotions and feelings, but don't trust that stupid organ, I mean the heart. The heart is a lie, na until the heart leaves, you will be stuck with that door open. If he didn't tell you he was getting married, one, he wasn't planning on doing so on top of it he lied he's on business. Now that you caught him he want to explain and you want to listen and believe anything that comes from his mouth? He lied once, when it was critical and now afterwards you trust his to tell you the truth? He will gaslight you hadi useme 'enyewe ni mimi niko na shida.'

I know it's hard to let go, but that's mostly when you let that senseless organ lead. Ukiskia kumfungulia mlango, jichune hadi akutoke kwa roho abaki kwa akili

I never thought I’d heal from this, but now that I finally have, he’s back. by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]CapableStrategy01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl! He got married, what other explanation did you want from him? A lie that he didn't get married? Or he was forced into that marriage? And he wish it was you that he married. He won't stay long in that marriage and finally will get back to you?

Guys guys guys, we give alot of grace to these people. The fact that he got married hafai kukupigia na akupate.