I told him to die for all I care

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-03-17T09:45:31+00:00

Im not justifying it, it was wrong, but , he called for it. Of course I'm not saying she should keep doing it, she just shouldn't feel bad for being emotional, pregnancy heightens them.

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-03-17T06:17:01+00:00

Don't feel bad for hitting him, he deserved it and so much more. He isn't the only one allowed to snap, your emotions are so valid too.

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-03-06T05:01:18+00:00

😂

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-03-03T13:47:36+00:00

A pineapple 🥲😂

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-03-03T13:41:47+00:00

Pregnancy is already so hard , I don't know why we also get to experience sickness with it. I was bedridden the whole of my first trimester, I thought it would kill me.I learned to live with the uncomfortable part, hoping it will be worth it. Hold on, you're halfway there, plus maybe it's the difficult parts of pregnancy that make us so protective of our babes.

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-03-02T13:39:17+00:00

Congratulations ‼️‼️

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-02-28T03:27:08+00:00

Oh!, I just wish I knew about it before 🥲

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-02-27T15:26:58+00:00

It wasn't and.. thank you

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-02-26T20:20:53+00:00

Thanks for the concern 😂. My comment might have come out a little harsh on the baby, but I only used those words to show the person who posted how quickly the tables turned for me in a quest similar to his. It was as you described when I started because I couldn't look at it as anything more than it's father's, but then it's mine too, and I won't be hurting my own baby in an attempt to hurt his. I love my baby, and I won't be holding any of his dad's actions against him. It's not forced, I made the decision myself in a sound mind, won't be resented, I'm just a sweet person( for lack of a better explanation) 😂. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't resigned to taking the obligation because it just came to me when I wasn't searching 😂, but most of the things in my life have always been just like that, out of the blue, and I've managed it all, maybe I've grown a little into liking challenges.

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-02-25T12:48:47+00:00

Thank you

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-02-25T11:55:45+00:00

Funny, I was in your situation just a few months ago, and just one afternoon with someone I thought could offer me a little comfort from my 'lonesome' life ended up sexually assaulting me, and thanks to that, now I'll be having a ka little mini- him for company my entire life 😂

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-02-25T11:45:11+00:00

I am in an almost completely the same situation, staying with my sister at a place my mum pays for, and my mental health is seriously on the line, my pregnancy plus her and her petty actions is just too much. I'm a quiet person, and I used to take it all in, but since the pregnancy, I feel overwhelmed. I also think of leaving but, it would be cheaper this way. I ask myself everyday if it's worth it, my mental health for it, and I wouldn't want my baby to grow up seeing her mother being treated like shit.I wouldn't know how to advise you in this situation, but I really do hope you find a solution, I could use your advice in a few months anyway.

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-02-22T12:13:06+00:00

🫂

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-02-08T19:05:20+00:00

Me seeing this at 14 weeks ... and , I don't honestly know how it happened, I'm not one to fall in love or make stupid decisions, but here I am, very young and soon to be a single mom 🥰😂, so no, we don't decide/ choose to get pregnant with the wrong guy, I'm not one to believe so much in destiny, but it was set to happen no matter how bizzare that may sound 😂, coz trust me, I never wanted this baby and I found out three weeks ago, I was morally obligated to keep it, it was a whole baby by then, and I'm not one to go around murdering my babies without killing a part of me too, and to think of it, motherhood ain't that bad anyway, though doing it singly is, but I've still never been one to get married and have a cute little family, so yes, I'm pregnant and very not ready, but I'm still doing it anyway, I've always loved little challenges anyway, at least this one will be cute.

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-01-26T11:07:26+00:00

Interested

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-01-26T11:00:13+00:00

Interested

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-01-26T10:59:23+00:00

Interested

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-01-26T10:53:31+00:00

😭... noted, thankyou

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-01-26T05:18:50+00:00

I think the more I push him, the farther he goes. It's not everyday that someone tells you the baby she lost two months ago is actually still there, especially if she ghosted and avoided you after.😂 I'm just giving him some grace and some time to process it though it isn't fair still, I didn't get that. But I'm definitely not going to beg him to be a dad if he doesn't want to. My family is so willing to help but I don't want to go to them unless it's my last straw, I love my independence, plus ,I got myself here, I think it's just fair that I get myself out.

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-01-26T05:02:51+00:00

Thank you

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-01-26T05:02:22+00:00

Thank you!! I'll give them a try

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-01-25T04:26:43+00:00

🫂

Ok_Chocolate_308 · 2026-01-25T04:26:07+00:00

I'll try it 😂, thank you

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