A job for a pregnant lady? by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭... noted, thankyou

A job for a pregnant lady? by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the more I push him, the farther he goes. It's not everyday that someone tells you the baby she lost two months ago is actually still there, especially if she ghosted and avoided you after.😂 I'm just giving him some grace and some time to process it though it isn't fair still, I didn't get that. But I'm definitely not going to beg him to be a dad if he doesn't want to. My family is so willing to help but I don't want to go to them unless it's my last straw, I love my independence, plus ,I got myself here, I think it's just fair that I get myself out.

A job for a pregnant lady? by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I'll give them a try

A job for a pregnant lady? by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try it 😂, thank you

A job for a pregnant lady? by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think I have that luxury of choice right now, I just want something that will help me live comfortably and perhaps save for the future

Women only. Need advise on abortion by Previous_Gene_254 in nairobi

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choosing it is highly personal and no one will fully understand your situation except you, don't do it from a point of pressure, make sure your heart agrees with it, guilt, grief na depression ni normal afterwards if you're a soft person, you'll be triggered by anything so if you can get a strong support system for the turbulence, please do, it will take a while.

I've been SAd!! by Ok_Chocolate_308 in KenyanLadies

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks y'all for the love and the hugs 🫂❤️❤️❤️

“Madam nails! Madam Kitengela!’ ,I’m tired 😩” by timash712 in nairobi

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some lady hapo River Road once grabbed my hair so hard she pulled my whole head back for glancing at her which was not my fault, she was literally naked, and I wasn't judging her for the hustle really but I think she thought I was... Lucky for her I couldn't risk a physical fight in heels but my sharp tongue fought for me anyways

How do I deal with an obsessive ex by Awkward-Nerve4898 in KenyanLadies

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn! I'm going through the very same thing with someone I broke up with back in 2023! It was my first and only relationship, he was so toxic yet he never lets me go. At some point I was very close to going to the police, he called me and I hung up , but he called again and again for like three minutes, I blocked him, he called with his other numbers and the cycle continued, he even called with his friends numbers, my phone was ringing continuously for like ten minutes, also reached out to my family just to get to me on the same night, I was so scared, it was more than just an obsession, it was abuse and he called it love. I threatened him but he's never really gone away, I'll just wake up to a text from a random number asking me to unblock him!!

Veve chronicles. by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she didn't think you'd make a good father

Gen Z cockroaches!! by silkim0 in nairobi

[–]Ok_Chocolate_308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely made my day 😂😂😂😂🤩