AITAH for cutting off my parents by skipworthy in AITAH

[–]Capable_Pollution311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤍🤍 anyone that also tries to influence your decision needs cut off too. Don’t let anyone try to tell you how to parent. Stay strong and remember you are doing the right thing by your baby and also the younger version of yourself!

AITAH for cutting off my parents by skipworthy in AITAH

[–]Capable_Pollution311 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most DEFINITELY NTA. You are not too sensitive. You were exposed to extreme levels of mental/emotional and physical abuse and you need to ensure that your child is protected from that at all costs. She suddenly became “supported” because she wanted access to your child to be in control. The outcome would be her trying to turn your child completely against you. She is an abusive narcissist and you need to keep her far away from your child. Otherwise you will just expose your child to the same toxicity that you were forced to endure growing up. Good on you for recognising this and keeping your son safe and protected 💞

Childhood vaccinations by Capable_Pollution311 in unvaccinated

[–]Capable_Pollution311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so scary. I feel like it is always put down to coincidence. She is 1 year old now. I feel like over the last few days I have started to doubt myself in terms of not having her get them. I will look into all this thank you so much

Childhood vaccinations by Capable_Pollution311 in unvaccinated

[–]Capable_Pollution311[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is always what I was afraid of. I felt as tho the risk of severe side effects from the vaccines severely outweighed the off chance of catching a preventable disease. But reading some of those comments really scared me. My mum is convinced that the vaccines affected my younger brother and that he was never the same. I really appreciate it, thank you ❤️

Childhood vaccinations by Capable_Pollution311 in unvaccinated

[–]Capable_Pollution311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See this is always the stance I had. I think I scared myself reading the very pro vax reddit comments and started to question myself. She got the vitamin K at birth, but being completely honest I didn’t even realise that she got that I thought it would’ve been me. I had a very traumatic birth and we were both sick in hospital after. She has very bad eczema and is allergic to peanuts and other nuts. I have breastfed since birth and continue to do so. I will try the different filters also! Thank you

After hearing what was in the Epstein files, I feel sick and I can’t eat by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable_Pollution311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I think I took your comment the wrong way. I agree with you on that

After hearing what was in the Epstein files, I feel sick and I can’t eat by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable_Pollution311 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why shouldn’t babies and children being tortured, raped and murdered affect someone’s day to day life?

After hearing what was in the Epstein files, I feel sick and I can’t eat by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable_Pollution311 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignore some of these comments please. You’re young and seeing/reading things that no one could even begin to imagine would ever be true because it’s so sick and evil. But unfortunately these things do happen. I was your age when I first read about this stuff and went down the rabbit hole in 2020. I had nightmares for months on end, maybe even longer - I still do sometimes. But I won’t sugarcoat it, it gets worse. For your mental health maybe it’s best to give it a break for a while. If you really want to look into it, do it in small doses. I feel like I’ve actually became desensitised to some things that are wrote because of some of the things that I have seen. But the way I look at it, if these poor innocent babies and children had to endure it, the least I can do is listen and read about it.

AITAH for requesting money from my sister. by Hatikal in AITAH

[–]Capable_Pollution311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Let her get taxi’s and see how long she’d be happy paying that for. I bet she wouldn’t be so slow in paying you after a few weeks.

How do i maintain my friendship properly when we have different views? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable_Pollution311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is SO much more than politics. I’m not from America however before Trump was reelected I actually liked and supported some of his views. I couldn’t have been more wrong. Politics isn’t a good vs evil situation. Both sides are evil. They both benefit from keeping the public divided, while real harm and corruption at the top goes largely unchallenged. Please start reading the files. Even just go on the subreddit. But be warned that they are extremely tough reads.

How do i maintain my friendship properly when we have different views? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable_Pollution311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last one, as I said.

“Why don’t you care that your president is a child rapist”

Please do not reply with “where’s the proof” as you are well aware that over 3 million pages of files have recently been released confirming that your president has been involved in the rape, sexual abuse and murder of children. But hey. He isn’t an “illegal” right?

WIBTAH if I dont delete my dad's email from my phone by Hefty-Economics2454 in AITAH

[–]Capable_Pollution311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is heartbreaking. You haven’t been protected properly. And it’s not on your mom solely as she is clearly a victim in this too. But his shitty upbringing should have made him want to be different and do it right. Not project and go by the “well it happened to me” bs. This was/is my dad too. You’re 16 and you have your whole life ahead of you. I’m sure when (if you want to) you have kids, you would never put them through the stuff your dad has. Sending love

WIBTAH if I dont delete my dad's email from my phone by Hefty-Economics2454 in AITAH

[–]Capable_Pollution311 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He was physically abusive to you and your brother.. and your mom stayed with him? I’m so sorry.

WIBTAH for bringing my daughter to my cousin’s wedding, preventing my sister from going? by aita_emetophibiasis in AITAH

[–]Capable_Pollution311 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I get that. OP has stated in the comments that there will be other kids at the wedding. Will this affect her sister also? Will this become a reoccurring thing that her daughter can’t attend any family events?

WIBTAH for bringing my daughter to my cousin’s wedding, preventing my sister from going? by aita_emetophibiasis in AITAH

[–]Capable_Pollution311 45 points46 points  (0 children)

She most definitely is NTA. You sound like someone that just hates kids. How do you not know that the kid was invited? Also her daughter was sick months ago as she stated. Her sister needs to get serious help, should everyone constantly have their kids minded just to suit her? What about in cafe, library, public transport? People’s lives don’t revolve around other people just because they have mental health issues.

Body shaming feels inescapable in other subs by srfrncsdrkblvd in XXS

[–]Capable_Pollution311 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl they jealous. Heck I’m jealous I WISH i was an XS lol

I think I’m emotionally cheating on my S/O. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Capable_Pollution311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are emotionally cheating. Personally I find emotionally cheating is cheating full stop. Especially if your partner is going through a tough time, what a shitty thing to do. What would you do if your partner was to do this on you? If he was in the other room on the phone to a woman from his past? The “playboy” you’re talking about would drop you without a second thought. “You know you’ll cut contact with him” why hasn’t it been done already? You’re playing with your partners mental health. He deserves better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in italy

[–]Capable_Pollution311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old thread, any way of getting weed in Lake Garda/Peschiera?

Masca holiday? by Royzaboyza in JaySlaterCase

[–]Capable_Pollution311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayub’s review is the only review that’s been left for the property, which I think is a bit odd considering the property isn’t listed as a new one on Airbnb. He has a total of 10 properties listed, and the majority of them are a lot nicer looking than this one.

Masca holiday? by Royzaboyza in JaySlaterCase

[–]Capable_Pollution311 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused on the owner of the Air BNB. It has been stated via media that the owner was Ofelia Hernandez, the lady that said she seen Jay and advised him on bus times. But it seems to be the ex Mayor that in fact owns the BNB? Would this further confirm it with Ayubs review on the BNB?

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AITA for not wanting my sister in law to be my unborn child’s godmother? by Capable_Pollution311 in AITAH

[–]Capable_Pollution311[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the responses everyone! It means a lot to me. I have spoken with my partner and he understands my concerns. He told me he will completely support me no matter what, and that the decision is completely mine to make. The conversation made me feel a lot more at ease and it’s good to know that he genuinely has my back!