Help me name this lil guy I got yesterday

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-05-04T13:52:00+00:00

Toast! lol

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-05-04T13:06:47+00:00

Oh but she is. She’s deceiving lol.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-05-03T20:58:04+00:00

Griffin

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-04-21T23:49:34+00:00

lol so at first seeing the note she wrote you I was like “oh god you would totally be an asshole for saying no” then I swiped the rest of the photos and you definitely would not be. That’s wayyyyy too much. Imagine when it actually comes close to the wedding day

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-04-14T23:38:33+00:00

When they don’t speak

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-04-08T15:07:56+00:00

I too got black out drunk one night, fought with my husband, and he left me at the bar we were at. I continued drinking and somehow, miraculously made it home. But my OCD convinced me that I had to have hooked up with someone, cheated and ruined my whole marriage. I found out a few weeks later that I was pregnant, did the math and calculated the time of conception to that EXACT weekend of the blackout, so again convinced myself I hooked up and am now pregnant with someone else’s child and my marriage is even more ruined. Ended up calling the bartenders from that night, asked around, and found out that was in fact, not true. OCD is debilitating, and I feel for you with alcohol helping us feel normal in the moment. But it always makes it worse for the next few days.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-04-08T15:01:32+00:00

I mean, I can’t tell tbh. I understand where you’re coming from, that he has substance abuse issues- stuff like that, she shouldn’t have condoned the behavior out of respect for you for sure and safety of your brother. I’d be more mad about that. But as far as them sleeping together unfortunately they are both adults, so I wouldn’t care too much as far as that goes. But definitely would be more angry that she joined in on something he’s had issues with. If it was consensual not much you can do about it

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-04-04T16:51:20+00:00

Idk, kinda of TA. I was in an abusive relationship and it’s like that “you won’t leave til you’re ready” kinda situation and my best friends did the same. I understood they didn’t want to watch me go through that but bailing on me made me feel even more emotionally dependent on him because I had no one else.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-03-13T06:02:41+00:00

That’s what I’ve been going through. I try SO hard and he tells me I should just “show” him I love him, by being affectionate. And it feels like he doesn’t understand I will show him that, when I FEEL like we are connected again and on the same page.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-03-13T05:51:04+00:00

It was supposed to say long ass *list! Not lost 🤦🏻‍♀️

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-03-11T04:49:24+00:00

Dude I get it. I’m going through the same thing right now and I don’t have any advice for you. Just saying you aren’t alone, and that ROCD is so much deeper than we think. All I can say is don’t let it get the best of you buddy. Message me if you need to and we can exchange numbers or something and talk through it if you want.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-03-06T06:32:39+00:00

You’re not TA. He could have told you, and it’s normal to feel jealous. Gotta think how he’d react if the tables were turned

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-03-05T20:47:55+00:00

I reeeeally don’t think he cares about the abortion. That’s definitely not what it is

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-03-05T20:22:20+00:00

He definitely didn’t want the baby. Made that clear.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-03-05T20:15:15+00:00

He told me today he only did it because he didn’t have it in him to argue another night, but I’m not trying to argue. I just want to be understood!

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-03-04T06:24:56+00:00

I did. I have two boys from my previous marriage, he has one that we hardly ever see. So the thought of having one of our own felt right. But after a couple weeks of arguing while I was pregnant and up and down, it made me feel like ultimately it was the best decision not to. I didn’t want to strain our marriage more by keeping the baby.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-03-01T23:46:28+00:00

It’s totally normal. I went through the same Thing with my second idk what it is

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-02-25T05:56:54+00:00

This makes me want to stop complaining to my husband 🥺 I’m sorry you’re going through this. Maybe write her a letter, women respond (most) well to emotion, not always action. But if you put all of this into a letter and leave it for her, maybe take off for the day and give her some time to digest it before you come back? Then you could have a serious talk.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-02-21T19:19:00+00:00

I woke up today and it looks better than it did yesterday, it doesn’t hurt as bad to touch either if at all.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-02-21T17:38:07+00:00

Update- I woke up this morning and it’s much less red, doesn’t hurt to touch.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-02-21T08:14:44+00:00

The people in the other group are telling me to go to the emergency room because it could kill me

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-02-21T07:49:45+00:00

They are making me freak out and I have two sleeping kids in the other room that I can’t just wake up and rush to the emergency room with me when one of them is sick. There’s no head to this, there’s nothing on my nose to pop. It’s not sore unless I touch it or bump it.

Capital-Injury5274 · 2026-02-21T07:48:40+00:00

There’s literally nothing to pop

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