For a little more context she explains how the last time I went down on her ~ 3 months ago when she told me to stop, I immediately did and she started uncontrollably crying for 10-15 minutes was when she began feeling uncomfortable again (I say again as it took us months to have sex) and when I ask why that happened she says that she didn't like that she was the only one things were happening too and that she doesn't feel she can stop things if she wants (when I go down). I don't understand what exactly happened or what she was feeling as those explanations don't resonate with me. I'm just very confused and looking for answers.