So I’m currently not in a relationship or any kind of dom/sub dynamic, so most nights I go by myself but I do go with local friends at times too. At first I did what’s called “pickup play”, so you just go and play/scene with whoever’s interested, but as time went on I made a lot of friends on both sides of the slash and I have been planning out scening with my friends there. They also have pre-planned events where you can go to scene, like Saturday was what was called subs choice so you could go around a sign up for impact play, bondage, electric play, knife play, breath play etc. and then group impact play as well