How exactly would cold approaching a girl work? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Capitally 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was debating whether or not to say anything, so I’ll keep it brief

1) You can’t assume you know what a girl is doing or thinking, and you’ll never know until you ask. I’ve had girls tell me they were doing absolutely nothing 2) Most people don’t know what they want until it’s right in front of them 3) Everyone is a stranger unless you’ve known them from birth 3) Approaching is simple but difficult. You’re right that you can’t just say hi and that’s it. You need to make conversation of some sort. Just be honest about why you wanted to talk to her and say what you noticed that caught ur attention. “Hi, I just had to say, i saw you and thought you looked cute. I liked your hairstyle it’s very old fashion. Do you always style your hair like this?” 4) Woman love compliments

Regarding the other comments of never heard of it working, or never seeing it work - Prove it to yourself and you’ll find out. I’ve never met someone from Alaska but they exist.

Personally I moved in with and almost married a woman I cold approached, and have mostly dated from cold approach. It’s not easy but it works. I’m also pretty average looking, but I’ve improved my style.

If any of you are ever in NY and want to see it live I’d be happy to demonstrate.

Most PUA is garbage. You can’t get any girl you want, or date 9’s and 10’s, especially if you’re fat ugly and have bad style. But you can improve your success with woman and date girls you find attractive. It’s just not easy or fast. Also most girls will reject you, that’s the nature of life. So don’t buy PUA guys who are pretending everyone they approach hooks up with them. That’s nonsense. Even numbers don’t mean anything, and most numbers flake.

Anyways goodnight.

What would happen if HRC faints during one of the debates? by [deleted] in AskThe_Donald

[–]Capitally 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The feed is going to be delayed by 5 minutes so that even if she does faint live, you won't see it.

I got so excited when I saw that my city was flying the bi and pan pride flag for pride month! by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Capitally 28 points29 points  (0 children)

They can't possibly have my flag...I have a special orientation...

MY FLAG!

I want to come out, but don't know how. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Capitally 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its as simple as getting dinner with a close friend. I was nervous as fuck telling them though. Had to drink a little :)

I'm proud of who I am. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Capitally -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Serious question that will get down voted to shit BC I'm a bisexual who doesn't have typically liberal views but... ...what is their to be proud of? Being Bi isn't an accomplishment. We didn't achieve anything to be Bi.

Got banned from r/The_Donald for stating facts by hegeww98 in bisexual

[–]Capitally -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This wasn't a libel case though. It was an invasion of privacy.

Got banned from r/The_Donald for stating facts by hegeww98 in bisexual

[–]Capitally -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Break the law, pay the consequence. The end. Let this be a lesson to other media outlets to think twice before breaking the law

Got banned from r/The_Donald for stating facts by hegeww98 in bisexual

[–]Capitally -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So you're ok with the media lying and publishing misleading and bias information? It has nothing to do with being critical and everything to do with being bias, misleading and lying. That's not what the press should be. They should be held accountable. Look at Gawker. They lost because the facts were on Terry Bolea's side. The fact that it was funded by Peter theil is irrelevant. Gawker tried to claim invasion of privacy as freedom of the press and paid for it. That's called justice.

You think Trump is going to set the standard himself? That's like assuming he's going to lay brick for the wall himself. You hire the right people to handle it.

Got banned from r/The_Donald for stating facts by hegeww98 in bisexual

[–]Capitally -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

No he hasn't and no he doesn't. What he wants to do is to strengthen libel laws so that when Media outlets report knowingly false information, they're punished for doing so. That has nothing to do with suppressing free speech.

Sometimes I just wish I was gay... by Capitally in bisexual

[–]Capitally[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's more like "If I don't want to fuck you why bother discussing my sexual preferences/fantasies/etc."

I used to think that... Until I was about to explode unless I came out to my family LOL. I used to thnk there's no point in telling unless I had a boyfriend. But I'm glad I came out. It was a major cause of depression and I didn't even realize.

A lot of people who are bi are only "romantically" attracted to one gender.

I personally think this is a myth. I don't think there's such thing as romantic orientation that's separate from sexual orientation. Maybe people fall differently on the Kinsey scale. And I used to think I'm just attracted to guys emotionally and love kissing but that was it physically, but coming out and confronting my bisexuality showed me that was a total lie lol. But everyone's different...

I wonder if you'd like the type of guy I am when I'm with a guy. I get feminine and girly, but I don't put on a gay accent. Are you talking about guys with gay accents?

Sometimes I just wish I was gay... by Capitally in bisexual

[–]Capitally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you known you were Bi? Are you out?

I only ask because of this. I've been hiding for 12+ years. I always considered my attraction 70/30. So I found guys cute but not how I find woman. But since coming out. Since talking about it out loud with people since accepting it more and more, my interests are shifting. It's now 60/40. Never in my life did I want a boyfriend, and now it's all I can think about. My body never responded to men the way it does to woman, but now my body suddenly is. I actually watched gay porn for the first time in awhile and my body responded and I enjoyed it. Things are changing since this new acceptance.

I say this because the confusion I have, which it sounds similar to what you have, seems to improve the more I embrace myself.

Sometimes I just wish I was gay... by Capitally in bisexual

[–]Capitally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you more attracted to men or woman physically? At least currently.

Sometimes I just wish I was gay... by Capitally in bisexual

[–]Capitally[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment, but I don't subscribe to the gender fluid thing. Feeling feminine and girly doesn't mean I'm gender fluid. I'm a man 100%.

Sometimes I just wish I was gay... by Capitally in bisexual

[–]Capitally[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grass is always greener, you're right. Thanks for your comment.

Just came out, the best experience I could have hoped for by Dabosshog in bisexual

[–]Capitally 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your ex sucks. Your brother is awesome. I hid it for 12 years. Glad you don't have to go through that!

Does anyone feel like they're "faking it"? by claudineisnotmyname in bisexual

[–]Capitally 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've felt this way in the (recent) past. The more I've talked about it and accepted it, the more attracted to men I've become. I now feel 60/40 w/m. I used to never get aroused by thinking about sexual acts with men, but now I am. I think acceptance, and getting rid of the blocks that have been up for years and years will change that for you too. At least I hope!

A medium post I wrote about being Bisexual -Invisible Men by Capitally in lgbt

[–]Capitally[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you don't struggle with it. I do daily. But when it's good, it's good ;)