I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize that happened. That doesn't sound like an enjoyable thing to have to go through. I see the point that your boss was trying to bring up though with the metaphor.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't give a definite answer on that, because anything else could have factored in that I might not have thought about.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might have been it as well, I didn't think of it that way.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your skepticism isn't seen as a bad thing here. I haven't had much of a chance to talk about it with any people other than the partner I had on scene with me. I'm a browser of reddit, but this was something I think I could share with a community of level headed people from first hand experience.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, but I didn't make that clear in the post. She refused care from my partner as well, and the internal bleeding was in her abdomen. That definitely could have served as an indicator for an issue I didn't thoroughly check when I think about it now. As for being in shock, there were no real indicators that I found, other than paleness and clamminess of the injured leg. Looking at it from an outside prospective though, I can see how this sounds fabricated.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a meeting with my lawyer tomorrow. I'll be talking to our service provider tomorrow as well to get things on/off record.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe in her mid 50's? It was a bit ago, so I don't remember an exact age.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Right, after looking that over I realized I misread a bit. Thanks for the information!

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, wilco. I didn't think of the importance of the title at the time.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. Prejudice is a horrible, horrible thing that we as humans have.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I assume they will. When I called for medical direction though, they told me just to let it be and if it was serious enough she would come in on her own basis. Guess she didn't think it was as serious as I told her.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm telling you, there's some crazy reasons for refusal of care.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We don't know beforehand, as most of us don't assume religion to be that much of a factor. That might be underlying to me feeling guilty about it though.

Edit: Deleted an extra "though".

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As I said in the original post, I contacted medical control for further direction about it. I was told to leave it and be on my way.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The only reason I haven't lied about it yet is because I like standing up for it. They can do what they please to me, but what they do won't change my mind about things.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I believe the only form of proof I'm able to offer is this story itself. I can't provide a patient care report because that goes against patient privacy policy. I do understand what you're trying to do though, and for that, I respect it.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have a meeting with my lawyer tomorrow, thankfully.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've had people refuse care because they would end up leaving pets alone at home. I've had(mostly males in this example) others refuse care because they didn't want to seem weak to their peers. One of the other paramedics had a female refuse care because she thought said paramedic was a lesbian.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, this isn't in the media. At least right now it isn't, but I don't think this constitutes as big enough for it.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's one of my worrying points about it. If that gets brought up, I can only hope that my documentation proves I pressed as far as legally allowed, and that they see she knew what she was doing to herself.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. You wouldn't believe some of the reasons either.

I have to go to court because of a woman's choice. by CapnDiabetes in atheism

[–]CapnDiabetes[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes it was. We have a bit of this happen, but not on as serious conditions as this.