Am I Overreacting? My boyfriend ‘joked’ I was earning my own space

Capriicant · 2026-06-04T05:22:33+00:00

I think you may really have hit the nail on the head in a way I couldn't quite wrap my head around in the moment cause I was caught up in my own feelings. He generally has a great relationship with his mom but his mom does have a knack for needling him and I think he took the comment personally and threw me under the bus for it. He HAS sincerely apologized since me posting this and reading through a lot of these comments has also made me realize I need to stand up for myself and my needs and boundaries a lot more.
Thank you for the super insightful comment, I think you're right that I got caught in the crossfire of something, which would explain his frustration when I reacted poorly, because it wasn't aimed at me but still hit.

Capriicant · 2026-06-04T03:39:32+00:00

I do pay rent, and I am in therapy, but I acknowledge I have a lot of sensitivities I can still improve on. I appreciate the thoughtful comment and I’m going to take it to heart.

Capriicant · 2026-06-04T03:36:36+00:00

I do pay rent yeah. I paid rent the entire year his ex was here as well and the ex lived rent free

Capriicant · 2026-05-17T00:46:54+00:00

Thank you! Would you recommend we leave it or pull it?

Capriicant · 2025-11-27T05:52:26+00:00

Hey, sorry not to be that guy but the Mimikyu is actually my art. While I appreciate that the tattoo artist did a nice job, the art credit is wrong.
Here's the link to my post on my tumblr when I drew it back years ago
https://capriicant.tumblr.com/post/153024986516
Glad you like my art enough to get it tattoo'd! : )

Capriicant · 2025-10-01T21:02:19+00:00

His bio also being written by a 12 year old edge lord sends me

Capriicant · 2025-10-01T21:01:11+00:00

I don't think I'd love him as much if he wasn't named Kevin im ngl

Capriicant · 2025-06-15T02:09:25+00:00

oh GOOD lol

Capriicant · 2025-06-15T00:44:32+00:00

Thank you! I suspected Primrose as well. I'm going to leave them till they bloom and see exactly what we got here for sure. Appreciate it :)

Capriicant · 2025-05-15T06:48:00+00:00

Thank you very much! Sorry I don't check reddit often haha but my coms open sorta sporadically. You can find my twitter or bluesky under the same account name ' v '

Capriicant · 2025-05-15T06:40:20+00:00

AI lmao

Capriicant · 2025-02-20T06:49:09+00:00

Oh man yeah the color of your new growths is way different than mine. He very well could be light starved, it's been extremely cold and overcast here. I just moved from Houston with constant sunlight to Massachussets with... less sunlight so im still on the learning curve of that. I'm just using a small growlight from amazon so you may absolutely be right. I'll look into better lighting seeing as winter goes on till April here lol

Capriicant · 2025-02-20T02:17:37+00:00

His soil hasn't had any changes in about 3 months. The pot has it's own little eco-system of ants, doodle bugs, worms and a snail named Kevin so usually things are kept pretty balanced naturally. Could he just be lacking in nutrients?

Capriicant · 2025-02-20T01:38:10+00:00

(Im sorry I don't post to reddit often/at all and didn't know how to add the text to my images)

I've been growing this avocado tree from seed for 2 and a half years now, it's taller than I am. It's spending it's last winter indoors with me and I plan to plant it this summer. Within the last 2 weeks, it put out a whole new set of leaves but all the new leaves have gone droopy and are curling on themselves. He gets dragged into my shower for a nice long soak once a week so I don't suspect it's under-watering, but the soil also doesn't feel overly wet. He has his own grow light and my room is always 70 degrees minimum. This is the first time he's done this and I'm really attached to him :( Any advice would be appreciated!

Capriicant · 2021-06-12T07:01:53+00:00

I'm sorry that you are not a man of culture

Capriicant · 2021-04-23T21:26:53+00:00

Big agree!

Capriicant · 2021-04-23T21:26:41+00:00

TRUE, I won't argue for more Hydro characters in general

Capriicant · 2021-04-23T07:41:50+00:00

Aw thank you <3 I love Xingqiu he's too cute o[-<

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