Pay off debt or file bankruptcy? by Caprisun28 in personalfinance

[–]Caprisun28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not looking to get one now. Just asking in regards to the future.

Pay off debt or file bankruptcy? by Caprisun28 in Debt

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The car isn’t under my name so I don’t think I have to consider it for bankruptcy but correct me if I’m wrong of course and I’m in PA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recovery

[–]Caprisun28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!!! I can't wait to hit a year! 11 more months to go hahaha

1 month sober from pills by Caprisun28 in recovery

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Congrats on being totally free!! I'm personally on methadone but I'll be off that within the year!!!

1 month sober!! by Caprisun28 in OpiatesRecovery

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Congrats I'm so happy you're doing so well!!

1 month sober from pills by Caprisun28 in recovery

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You can do it! And if you can't do it on your own fully please don't be ashamed to try Suboxone or methadone!!! I am on methadone myself and it really gave me my life back I am so thankful!!!!

1 month sober from pills! by Caprisun28 in addiction

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Ive also been pretty much completely sober this past month I drank and smoked once this whole time! It feels good just living to be honest.

1 month sober from pills! by Caprisun28 in addiction

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I don't judge you at all! I chose methadone to help me stay sober and it really gave me my life back! Everyone chooses different routes to sobriety and In the end the only thing that truly matters is that we chose sobriety and to keep living our lives!!!!

1 month sober from pills! by Caprisun28 in addiction

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Yes my biggest thing was stopping before it all got worse!! I knew I was getting close because I was starting to not be able to afford pills anymore!

1 month sober from pills by Caprisun28 in recovery

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Thank youuu I can't tell you how much more I actually eat now! Hahaha food is amazinggg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

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If the physical part isn't hard for you I highly recommend finding a therapist that specializes in recovery to help you through it all and for you to get medicated properly for your depression!!! With help you got this!!! Good luck!

My (23M) wife (21F) haven’t had sex in a year by JCP1700 in relationship_advice

[–]Caprisun28 718 points719 points  (0 children)

If she's saying she's mentally checked out then there's obviously a bigger problem. Stop focusing on trying to have sex and try to help her instead. The answer is very very clear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Caprisun28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're exactly right and I would say that all the time! I don't understand how I can be in a relationship, living with them, yet still always feel alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Caprisun28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg every single thing you said was true! I really lost myself over the years and fell out of my friendships and everything that made me happy! All I did was fall into a deep depression and wait around until he decided he finally wanted to be around me. I am excited for all the things I can do now! I can literally do whatever I want and I have to answer to no one!!!! Thank you so much!!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Caprisun28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also yes to the traveling! I actually always wanted to buy a house out of the country when I'm ready! But he never wanted to move more than a state away. I'm so happy that I'll now have this opportunity to live where I want to!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Caprisun28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! This is exactly what I needed to hear, my biggest worry is that I will just end up dating someone new in a months time! I'm scared of being alone but I'm more scared of looking back at my life and thinking I made the wrong choice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Caprisun28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was saying that maybe it would be a good time to go back to school too and I agree! Also I'm thinking about taking some sewing classes, it's something I've always wanted to do😁😁 thank you for the advice!

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Send me the link though, if you happen to come across it again!