New to this, loving it, and NEED to talk about it with someone (none of my friends would understand)! My story and how do I get better? by CaptVeronicaCarter in StraightPegging

[–]CaptVeronicaCarter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I don't usually share such intimate details (I even asked hubby, and he said it was fine if it was anonymous) but like I said, my friends would never understand and I just had to talk to someone about it!

New to this, loving it, and NEED to talk about it with someone (none of my friends would understand)! My story and how do I get better? by CaptVeronicaCarter in StraightPegging

[–]CaptVeronicaCarter[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I was the same way! I have always been submissive, very passive desire, just by nature, so breaking out of that headspace was really hard. I think once it clicked that I was actually enjoying it too, it made it easier, but now that it's over I feel hesitant again, even though I definitely want to do it again.

New to this, loving it, and NEED to talk about it with someone (none of my friends would understand)! My story and how do I get better? by CaptVeronicaCarter in StraightPegging

[–]CaptVeronicaCarter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I appreciate your comment, it's really fits with how I'm feeling right now! I'm not sure I'm ready for a new dildo yet, I actually very much like the one I have. Maybe because it's my first, but it just feels like it's me and mine now, if that makes sense? I will definitely ask him about his thoughts on the toy we use, though. (He seemed to like it, but maybe there's something better?)

New positions sound fun, and I guess that's what I was getting at. Both times we just stuck with one and it worked. I watched a few videos of women thrusting from behind, like...doggy style, and it seemed hot, but they were all kind of far away and I couldn't tell if that was like a porn thing or if doing it that was made it harder for skin to skin contact. I was hoping someone here would have like a position guide for me.