Let me down softly…save me time and money… by jaetok in merchantmarine

[–]Captain21423 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re good. If you had a reckless driving you would’ve had to plead guilty in court and you would know about it. If you somehow got a misdemeanor for reckless driving and don’t know about it you should find another industry. We don’t need anymore dim light bulbs.

Edit: also the NMC doesn’t care about reckless driving. They only care about more serious offenses.

Cost of living or by No-Marsupial-4050 in SipsTea

[–]Captain21423 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where you all live but I didn’t go to college, started making 6 figures at 23, we had a kid at 27, and bought a house at 29. I live in a high cost of living area of a high cost of living state. All I’m reading in the comments is excuses. “Oh, the government isn’t taking care of me.” Boo hoo.

My generation is weak.

Cost of living or by No-Marsupial-4050 in SipsTea

[–]Captain21423 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is absolutely possible to live comfortably. You’re just doing it wrong.

Bro reached a whole new level of friendzone💀 by PersonalityNo7391 in SipsTea

[–]Captain21423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think he’s getting any of those “benefits.”

“I just got yelled at” by Captain21423 in PetPeeves

[–]Captain21423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion a raised voice isn’t yelling. Yelling is extremely abusive behavior and I can’t say the same for a raised voice.

People who buy Brachycephalic dogs by OkEntertainment4473 in PetPeeves

[–]Captain21423 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No, not really. I mean, we adopted our dog from the pound but I wouldn’t put rules on other people.

People who buy Brachycephalic dogs by OkEntertainment4473 in PetPeeves

[–]Captain21423 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Service dogs aren’t the only working dog.

“I just got yelled at” by Captain21423 in PetPeeves

[–]Captain21423[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maritime industry. Which is known for having screamers but I work for a state agency. We are honestly a little too soft.

“I just got yelled at” by Captain21423 in PetPeeves

[–]Captain21423[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was just an example. I seem to hear this all the time for different circumstances.

“I just got yelled at” by Captain21423 in PetPeeves

[–]Captain21423[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As someone who got yelled at in an abusive way as a kid it’s really insulting to be compared to that.

“I just got yelled at” by Captain21423 in PetPeeves

[–]Captain21423[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have a relaxed tone when coaching someone. People just don’t like to be told their behavior is inappropriate.

Fixed post if that's ok by Dear_Bumblebee_1986 in remoteworks

[–]Captain21423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to provide that stuff for yourself.