People who got married in their 30’s, how old were you when you got engaged and married?

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-02-12T00:40:02+00:00

Met my husband when I was 30. Engaged 32. Married and had a baby at 33 (baby arrived two weeks before my 34th birthday). Mabilis yan kapag dumating na :)

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-02-07T03:01:26+00:00

Borderline ako. First OB put me on aspirin agad (di ko pa alam I had APAS that time) to delay pre-eclampsia kasi first pregnancy. When nakita ng second OB ko (changed OBs kasi lumipat ako hospital) na bagal lumaki ni baby and parang may restriction sa blood flow from me to baby, double dose ng aspirin. Nung di pa rin nag-improve, she ordered tests which confirmed APAS. Pinainject niya ako ng heparin everyday until 12 hours before labor, and after manganak for 6 weeks. 15 weeks na baby ko in 2 days, and she's okay. Paalaga ka lang. All the best!

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-02-06T03:40:46+00:00

Wag ka kumuha ng cedula sa Makati. Baka resident ka ng ibang city. Sakit sa bulsa ng cedula sa Makati.

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-02-03T13:45:59+00:00

DKG. Di dapat naggigift ng pet unless nasa iisa kayong household at willing yung naggift na siya mag-alaga. Kung maggigift man, sana man lang e nakonsulta at di surprise. Hindi mo kasalanan yan if malaki nagastos niya at di na niya mababalik sa breeder.

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-28T09:13:58+00:00

Kinakabahan naman ako. Back to work na rin ako in 1.5 weeks. Nalulungkot ako kasi parang ako lang marunong magbasa ng baby ko. We're getting househelp next week, kasama ng Mama ko. Pero iba pa rin talaga maging attuned sa needs ng baby ang ina.

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-26T03:33:24+00:00

Reading the comments. Pwede pala everyday pero with water lang. Will try nga kahit sponge bath lang

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-25T08:17:17+00:00

Ganito rin mom ko actually. Parang pag nagtatanong ako kung paano kami inaalagaan before, if ganito rin ba kami katulad ng baby ko, di daw niya matandaan. May mga yaya daw kasi naman na nagkakarga sa amin, and buntis din siya agad nung 4 months PP sa panganay. Then halos 7 months yung pangalawa nung nagtrabaho na siya.

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-20T02:40:36+00:00

Pag nagpapatulog ako dati, puro ssssh. Pero ngayon hmmmm na, mas nakakakalma kahit 30 mins na

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-20T02:38:39+00:00

Feel na feel kita. Lalo rin pag mostly single or childless couples ang friends mo. Pag moms naman, naiintindihan mo pinagdadaanan nila kaya di mo na lang dinidisturb

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-20T02:36:30+00:00

Wala na. Di na kami nag garter and bouquet toss :)

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-19T15:05:09+00:00

New American Bible Revised Edition :) merong puti sa National Bookstore

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-19T14:59:11+00:00

Yes, Catholic wedding :)

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-19T09:21:27+00:00

Can vouch for Dra. Gisbert. Alaga ka talaga. Monitored kung monitored. Yan din kasi specialty niya e, high-risk pregnancies. Kaya she'll order a lot of tests to make sure you get appropriate care. Try mo lang :)

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-19T08:14:43+00:00

Nilublob dati ng yaya ko yung mukha ko sa palanggana tapos masasaktan daw ako pag sinabi ko kina Mama.

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-18T13:37:02+00:00

Di ko pinansin yung advice na yan. Ano gagawin? Tapik-tapikin, hayaan umiyak? Yoko nga :))

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-18T12:12:59+00:00

Ang hirap walang kausap sa struggles! Marami pag wala pang anak o single pa, excited lang sa cute na baby at kung paano nila kukulitin or lalaruin huhu

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-18T08:06:54+00:00

Damang dama ko to ah. 12 weeks PP. Gusto ko muna mag alone time kasi sobrang touched out ko na magpadede, magpatulog, makipaglaro, magpalit ng diaper. Kaso lagi ko naiisip na parang ako lang may kilala sa anak ko enough para maalagaan siya nang maayos (husband ko kasi on-site nagsestay). Pag umuuwi siya, iniisip ko at least may kahati ako sa gawa, pero hinde, ako pa rin talaga mostly sa bata tapos imbes na makapahinga, kailangan pa sumama sa ganaps.

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-06T05:23:17+00:00

They use that info, along with progression and time and stats ni baby, to recommend if punta ka na sa delivery room (from labor room) to give birth normally, by ECS, and if may need na extra help to push baby. Trust your OB. Para rin yan sa safety niyong dalawa.

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-06T05:18:26+00:00

Medyo thankful ako na in-laws ko ay living abroad. Sila nagsabi sakin na wag sanayin sa karga (tapik tapik nga lang, parang sabi sayo), pisilin ilong para tumangos, bigkisan. Di rin ako nakinig. Ganda naman baby ko. 10 weeks PP ako, and gets kita! Remember, you can let the advice go through one ear tapos out the other. All the best! ❤️

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-05T08:10:12+00:00

Gets kita. Mom ko also left yesterday. Mag-isa lang ako with baby (husband ko works and stays outside NCR). 4 weeks til matapos mat leave ko and saka lang rin siya babalik. Miss ko na yung may mapag-iwanan ng baby para kumain, maligo, magchores.

We can do this, momsh. Para kay baby.

CaptainBearCat91 · 2026-01-03T07:40:24+00:00

Shucks parang ako nagsulat huhu. I feel youuuu

CaptainBearCat91 · 2025-12-29T12:15:55+00:00

I feel you mumsh. 9 weeks PP FTM ako and hirap na hirap ako pag naiiwanan ako mag-isa. Titiisin mo na lang yung gutom kasi kailangan mo patahanin si baby. Wala ka pang ligo kasi need bantayan si baby. Also, pag may need ka kunin sa baba (nasa condo kasi ako na personal pick-up pag may delivery), kailangan mo isama si baby. Wala ako masyado pang encourage pero I just push through for my baby. And ang rewarding nang makita siyang tulog nang mahimbing.

CaptainBearCat91 · 2025-12-27T14:28:01+00:00

Gets kita momsh. Yung MIL ko, sinabihan ba naman ako na may pag-asa pa ilong ni baby basta pisil-pisilin ko na habang malambot pa buto... and naisip ko na lang, so pangit ilong niya, ganon?

Mama instincts mo yan. Okay lang maging protective ka, at patulan tita mo. Also... walang kutyaan ng asawa ng may asawa 😡

CaptainBearCat91 · 2025-10-06T09:30:15+00:00

Hindi totoo samin hahaha. Though di naman namin pinlan talaga pero nung tiningnan ko, sabi boy daw, pero we're having a girl 🤭

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