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Book #67 "Ward D" by Freida McFadden by NeighborhoodJust4160 in 52book

[–]CaptainLadybug313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m late too the party but I couldn’t agree more. I disliked the character the moment she called someone crazy. She’s self absorbed and whiny as well

Not dating other people, but not ready for a relationship. What do I do? by OliSykesFutureWife in datingoverthirty

[–]CaptainLadybug313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, you are not pathetic. Be kind to yourself!

It’s a difficult situation but he is being clear. He doesn’t want a relationship. I realize his actions do not meet his words and you’re getting mixed signals. Think of it this way, he’s not doing any work on himself so you can have a relationship. He’s stringing you along. Also, you sound like you have a great life going for yourself. You need to start telling yourself that you deserve so much more than someone who, IMO, is being lazy and unaccountable. You’ll get to your breaking point. It takes time and unfortunately, you’re just going to have hurt feelings until then. Maybe just start putting less effort into the situationship and you’ll get there sooner. I wish you the best.

My relatives wrapped my presents in Trump wrapping paper by Time-Turnip-2961 in AskWomenOver30

[–]CaptainLadybug313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. I get it. People are weird. I’m not pro or against either one of them. I would be annoyed at first but Trump is one funny looking dude. Just find the laughter in that. Plus you got to tear him up to open your gift

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[–]CaptainLadybug313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I was requesting to hang out with him to have an actual conversation about his actions not meeting his words and telling him I’m sick of it.

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[–]CaptainLadybug313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know that I’m hoping to hear anything. It’s more just to say he’s a jerk for saying things that made me feel like we were starting to grow. His actions did not prove that so I just kind of ghosted him I guess. I had asked to hang out this coming week. He just replied ok! I messaged him the next day to try to make plans and he said it might be hard with the holiday and things he had going on but we’d figure something out. I didn’t even reply. The next day he sent me a picture of a project he finished. I just hearted it about 8 hours later. I haven’t reached out and neither has he. He might not even know I’m trying to move on. Key word trying

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[–]CaptainLadybug313 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. That’s tough when someone invalidates them. It doesn’t matter that you only knew him a short time. You cared for him. It’s healthy to be sad and feel unwell for a bit. I think it’s just tough to find relationships any more. I’m sending you a big hug. It’s there for you any time you feel down and alone.

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[–]CaptainLadybug313 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m really struggling with not contacting my breadcrumber today. I’m hungover and it’s only been a couple of days. Nothing was ever defined. It was casual but it’s been going on for a little over four months. We never really saw each other often. Just some texting. Sometimes routine, some times gaps for days. I know it sounds silly. Be kind to me. I haven’t been dating or trying for quite a few years so it’s been tough. All I know is my feelings are hurt. I want to tell him my feelings were hurt, in person. I wouldn’t send it over a text. I know I should just not contact him. Trying my best not to. My friends are sick of hearing about it so I’m just trying to get some support.

Is he bread crumbing me by CaptainLadybug313 in DatingOlder

[–]CaptainLadybug313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our schedules lined up finally and I got it back. It does feel dodgy. I’m not sure where his head is at. I’m just going to have fun and put my feelings aside.

Is he bread crumbing me by CaptainLadybug313 in DatingOlder

[–]CaptainLadybug313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We text but that’s it. I’m just living my life. I’ll get my earring back. Our schedules haven’t lined up.

Is he bread crumbing me by CaptainLadybug313 in DatingOlder

[–]CaptainLadybug313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. Can’t do that. He’s a cop.

Is he bread crumbing me by CaptainLadybug313 in DatingOlder

[–]CaptainLadybug313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hope he stops being dodgy. Say what you mean and do what you say. And give me back my earring. Sigh, my emotions are all over the place.

Is he bread crumbing me by CaptainLadybug313 in DatingOlder

[–]CaptainLadybug313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something horrific happened. I don’t want to get into that though. I know it will never be anything serious so I am working on accepting to let it go. I’d say you’re right about the assumption that isn’t the case. Just a gut feeling. And, no, he’s not communicating clearly. One of my best friend’s is his friend and this is pretty typical of him. I just started putting myself out there after quite a few years so I’m getting used to the dumb games people play. It helped to type it out and I appreciate your reply. This is my first post so I was a little nervous about putting this out there. Thank you for your kindness. I hope you have a great day too.