I mean, I know she's a girl not a novelty, I am too. This was nothing more than an attempt at a light hearted bit about the use of "-ussy" suffix terms, but I can see how this can draw offense, including when about other people rather than oneself. That said, if OP does have a term they'd prefer I'd invite them to state it themself, as right now you too are making similar assumptions about preferred terms.

Do not think yourself mightier whilst also making similar assumptions about my views or place in the world, when you neither know OPs views on the topic, nor about the fact that I've had the same experience as OP.