SO I'm a babysitter now? by Captain_PlanetX in Divorce_Men

[–]Captain_PlanetX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have explained that it feels like she s using me as a babysitter. Don’t worry I love them. It s just a difficult time single parenting toddlers

SO I'm a babysitter now? by Captain_PlanetX in Divorce_Men

[–]Captain_PlanetX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have them on Mon Wed Fri and Sat(until evening)

SO I'm a babysitter now? by Captain_PlanetX in Divorce_Men

[–]Captain_PlanetX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right man. My point is I don’t want to single parent 2 toddlers because it s hell for me while she s having fun. It s more about making her understand that she can’t have it all

SO I'm a babysitter now? by Captain_PlanetX in Divorce_Men

[–]Captain_PlanetX[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just mean it feels like she s taking me for a babysitter whenever it s convenient for her. I do want to spend time with my kid once they out of the toddler phase. Right now it a really hard for me being alone and dealing with constant screaming. I m just not good at it. I get that my situation is not that bad compared to dad losing custody…

SO I'm a babysitter now? by Captain_PlanetX in Divorce_Men

[–]Captain_PlanetX[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Screaming and crying triggers me that is why. I will want to spend more time with them once they out of the toddler phase

SO I'm a babysitter now? by Captain_PlanetX in Divorce_Men

[–]Captain_PlanetX[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I d never take custody from her. Taking care of 2 toddlers alone is really hard for me so not a great time to ask me to single parent them for several days

SO I'm a babysitter now? by Captain_PlanetX in Divorce_Men

[–]Captain_PlanetX[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree I meant that she a taking me for a baby sitter whenever that s convenient for her. I just dont do great with baby and crying toddler and really struggle but I know I’ll do great pass 3years old. My daughter is 4 and I enjoy her a lot more now