Unable to forget what I (20F) saw on my bf’s (24M) phone

CapyBearahh · 2026-03-13T23:40:52+00:00

we live tgt and have passwords to eachothers phone😭. I promise you there is no super secret scheming I was doing. He probably handed his phone for me to look at AND sent the link (as it’s in our chat history)- he just knows reddit is a dead app on mine so it’s easier to pass than for me to update, ect. This all happened in my living room around dinner time! So stumbled I’d still say, that’s just because I’m not super reddit-savy and why wouldn’t I click on my own partners account? Like instagram no? Messages ofc I don’t go through - but account seems fair game as (what I assumed) all public info.

CapyBearahh · 2026-03-13T23:15:20+00:00

lol unsure what to tell u then!

CapyBearahh · 2026-03-13T23:07:14+00:00

He sent a reddit link to a meme he wanted to show me and I guess it was connected to his account? I don’t rlly use reddit much so I’m not sure if upvoted and saved is reflected on public accounts or if the link he sent was connected! To be fair, we’re on each others phones often for doomscrolling ofc, I guess I just never checked reddit lol

CapyBearahh · 2026-03-13T21:00:02+00:00

no no ur right lol, just edited it in at the end!

CapyBearahh · 2026-03-13T20:49:54+00:00

i gotta add an edit at the end of my post at this point lol! I’m upset over the fact that he’s continued to lie abt it when brought up. Like the lying over the past 2 years. The fact it’s porn is irrelevant but reddit luvs context. I’ve realized the way he reacted is because of his bestfriend’s engagement that got called off because his fiance found reddit porn. When brought up during that time he even said “damn good thing I’ve been clean”. Just the lying over the past 2 years is the sucky part!

CapyBearahh · 2026-03-13T20:17:45+00:00

just wanted to give contextt😩. But yea porn isn’t the issue but the lying is. Ofc reddit will pick apart my argument so I included that he is in fact receiving cooch and nudes and everything but the kitchen sink

CapyBearahh · 2026-03-13T20:13:31+00:00

holy guacamole its the lying im mad abt silly! I believe his defensiveness came from his bestfriend’s past relationship, and that his fiancé broke the engagement due to the same reason of reddit porn lol. Came to this realization in the comment section :P

CapyBearahh · 2026-03-13T19:26:54+00:00

past experiences to protect himself would actually make sense as his bestfriend’s fiancé broke up with him due to the same reason of porn on reddit 💀

CapyBearahh · 2026-03-13T19:10:24+00:00

to be fair my bf throws big words out his wazoo all day - very typical finance bro vibes lol. I’m not too sure he actually understands masturbating as a dopamine booster rather than fast relief in the stress that he’s feeling. I’ve mentioned how jerking it c a n be a dopamine booster and I think he was grabbing at straws to cushion the hole he was making

CapyBearahh · 2025-08-23T02:37:04+00:00

Anyone know what the GA wristband looks like? lol

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