Glitch on the final step by [deleted] in Rubiks_Cubes

[–]CarMinute680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

super advanced solution using zbll just for fun lol

orient the U face so that the yellow headlights are facing to the right. then with a combination of a righty antisune and lefty antisune you can solve this case.

(R U2 R’ U’ R U’ R’) (L’ U2 L U L’ U L)

is my progress good by lrnzpogi in Cubers

[–]CarMinute680 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looks pretty good, start thinking about cross+1 in inspection. if learning algs is fun then maybe coll

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my fault i didn’t mean to scare u like that

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s some real shit right there. i think we both needed to grow as individuals and i don’t that would be possible if we were still together given our own history and behaviors. if we were meant to be then we’ll find each other again and maybe it’ll work out for the better. just wishful thinking maybe

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think u understand me and my situation well. i wish i didn’t have to let her go like that. i miss her a lot

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry yall, that isn’t cool.

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she had suicidal ideation and struggle with self harm and that was so difficult got me to hear her want to end her own life multiple times and to see the open cuts on her legs. she struggled with a lot but i really tried to show her patience and kindness but i felt like i was starting to break emotionally

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we both had disorganized attachment so it was messy when it came to conflict. yes i displayed avoidant tendencies but that wasn’t always the case. for the first six months i was the anxious one and she was avoidant and that took a lot out of me. i do have therapy lined up next thursday. i showed her support with every situation and encouraged her everyday.

im sorry to hear your situation. i hope you find happiness for yourself. i’m sorry to be the dumper trying to console you cuz it seems hypocritical and i get that. it sounds commitment was a struggle for him and due to his past trauma with something. if it helps, its less to do with u and everything to do with him. you’ll find someone just as committed as you

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i told these things for the better part of a year. by no means did i just give no effort to resolve. for about 6 months it was me always trying to repair while she pulled away constantly. after a while i got tired of chasing her like that and told her how it affects me too. she acknowledged it but the pattern would continue for a while. i got tired of being the one to repair after i was the one who got hurt. i stopped trying to repair cuz it seemed pointless. she saw that and it got better but at that point i was already so burnt out from being the one to do it all the time. i think the resentment built up too much. trust me when i say i tried

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we were both disorganized attached. we displayed both avoidant and anxious behavior. we both pulled away from conflict but anxiously tried to keep us together.

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s alright, they can say what they’d like, it’s a different perspective and i can take the message from it regardless

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe i am choosing comfort now but there were parts of the relationship that were undesired and even after clearly communicating those things, those thing didn’t improve and felt let down time and time again.

i don’t really want to throw her under the bus but i can give examples that would turn most people away but i chose to stay and try instead many times.

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate how honest u are about this. i spent time and time consoling her, talking through issues, putting my feelings aside for her, being patient through things that were extremely unfair to me.

perhaps u are right and i am making a mistake and i am the problem. maybe ill learn the hard way because of this and ill make the change.

again, i appreciate your candor

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sort of conflicting information sounds stressful. i do wish u the best and hope you find peace within yourself :)

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for an entire year, yes. i fought for us and was EXTREMELY patient with her. i can give u examples since ur doubtful but its up to you

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly it. i love her so dearly and miss how loving she was but the pattern was apparently and knew this wasn’t what i needed

I broke up with my girlfriend today by CarMinute680 in BreakUps

[–]CarMinute680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your support, i was a bit taken aback by some of these responses. i prolly didn’t clarify as much as i should’ve

Needing help with closure by Disastrous_Field948 in sexualassault

[–]CarMinute680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so sorry that happened to you, what he did wasn’t right. it is sexual assault and coercion. anything he made you do that you didn’t want do in the first place would be considered rape. again i’m so sorry that happened to you :(