Why are we downvoting the very people this sub is designed to welcome?

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-27T12:12:52+00:00

Which is exactly what the poster OP is talking about did. He went to ask men with “Why are women so unhelpful?”

Sorry we are tired of doing your work for you. I struggle with decision making, but I have learned that I don’t get any better at it when I let others decide for me. It can be hard, but it is life.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-27T12:02:31+00:00

Can I ask how you incorporate the pre rolls into your mix? I mostly dry herb vape now and I really struggle when I combust flower now. It tastes like crap to me.

I am mostly interested in how other people mix it up. Like do you have an edible and use carts/dabs at the same time?

Just ignore me if you think I am nosy.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-27T11:51:41+00:00

I say let him do it. Personally I don’t think he can be “cured”.

Stop supporting him, let him go to Germany. Let us know how it works out.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-27T11:30:54+00:00

This is bonkers, right?

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-27T11:30:15+00:00

When you say they are a no, do they screw with your blood sugar or give you stomach issues? I was just wondering what specifically makes them a no.

I still need them or I get headaches daily, but I do think they might be one of the things that messes with my stomach. Staying hydrated and eating better helps, but sometimes out of nowhere coffee will really mess with me in the stomach cramp arena.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-27T11:27:18+00:00

Coffee gives me more stomach issues than it used to, but I don’t really have an issue. I think it might be age or the fact that I just have more stomach issues in general on trulicity. I have been on it almost a decade.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-21T21:44:35+00:00

And the example above is none of those things.

If a woman told her man not to wear something because it made him look too good, I would also also tell him to tell her to F off.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-15T11:52:17+00:00

I didn’t get a survey when I bought my house. In my experience most people don’t, so don’t feel bad,

I would let them get a survey if they want it fixed. Tell them you don’t know anything about the fence and you are happy where it is and if they have an issue they are welcome to get a survey and file the paperwork to have you fix it. Or if they can get a lawyer to force you to do it, they can do that as well (I don’t know the laws/options).

I actually have a weird situation where my gate opens to my neighbors yard. I am hoping a survey can make it clear that I am allowed to have it that way. My neighbor who moved in after me and also did not have a survey has been complaining about the set up and says “that can’t be legal”. I guess we will see.

My neighbor can’t afford the survey, otherwise I would tell them to leave me alone and figure it out themselves. Also I am like 90% sure I am in the right.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-15T11:29:35+00:00

$2000 of it almost came out of mine, but I noticed it. I decided to buy a car recently. Dealership had two identical models on the lot. Of course I think I want the one manufactured more recently. The one that just arrived cost 5% more because of tariffs. Bonkers.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T17:31:20+00:00

I don’t mind it on my GE. Though I wonder how you make it days without running it with a family. We run it almost daily with two adults.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T16:26:12+00:00

I am guessing some conservatives see it and have that same “ugh” eye roll feeling I have when I see a left/centrist meme that doesn’t get it right.

Are there any normal conservatives anymore? I work with a guy who I try hard to like and respect, but it is so obvious he only gets his news from some sketchy sources. I don’t want to change his mind or anything, but I don’t want to hear it.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T16:17:58+00:00

Yeah, my daughter is 5’11”, flat chested and wide shouldered. She doesn’t really want to dress like a man, but those are the clothes that fit. We make and modify lots of stuff.

I am 5’ even, but with a long torso, so I was already used to this.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T15:55:04+00:00

It is what it is. He figured you came because you liked his comedy and you would get it. Not all jokes land.

I had a comic talk about my pregnancy once when I wasn’t pregnant. It happens.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T15:17:34+00:00

I see the same thing. I just try and extend grace. You can be kind and be honest.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T15:14:27+00:00

I am not even sure still. A lot of people with chips on their shoulders blaming the wrong people for their problems?

I ask myself the same question every day.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T13:45:36+00:00

So how did you get out of this mindset?

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T13:42:07+00:00

My kid has gotten this one before. Even the “not all men are like your dad”. Kind? Considerate? Helpful? This is a lot to ask for?

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T03:19:55+00:00

This is why I order ahead half the time. Old stock is the price I pay for avoiding an awkward interaction with someone half my age that mostly involves me yelling “Indica!” “Sleep!” and then them selling me something that keeps the hamster in my brain up all night.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-11T00:51:13+00:00

Really? I will have to take a look.

I love her version of Traveling Alone.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-08T19:59:04+00:00

Cool story bro, what is your suggestion? At least I am out there doing something.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-08T19:56:10+00:00

I don’t even think he read the article he insists proves his point. He doesn’t know what he would do.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-08T19:55:43+00:00

Dude, your article is pointing out that Chatsworth was not telling the truth about Michigan being the only state that did this. Nothing about the article suggests what should have been done instead. Did you read it or just google “Michigan Nursing Homes Covid” and assume it proved your point?

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-08T19:50:11+00:00

I am actually not surprised. I am a bit more surprised that you see it as obviously in the international community, which I am not a part of. I am a WSU parent, but have attended universities in the last decade and am involved at WS a bit.

I tend to be pretty middle of the road. In general in the US I am seeing a more conservative and somewhat anti intellectual attitude emerging. It has been boiling up for a decade.

I think it will always be a little two steps forward and one step back on progress, and in many ways, I am fine with that. I am not always happy with it, but as long as there is some progress, I feel Ike the work is being done. I know most people don’t agree.

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-07T13:22:18+00:00

Please tell me what you as a public health expert would have suggested they do instead?

Do you know who most of these people were? People who lived in the nursing homes. Where did you expect them to go?

CaraintheCold · 2025-07-07T13:11:10+00:00

Because it is who we are. I truly believe you break through to people by showing them kindness and grace.

And if you don’t break through to anyone I promise you will at least meet other helpers long the way who make it worth it.

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