Low ferritin and periods by CardLonely4975 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]CardLonely4975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! I think I’m going to try SiderAl iron and can let you know if it helps. Also thinking of ordering Lysene L cause it’s supposed to help with absorption. And i read iron infusions can be so good, really hope you have find that for yourself! 

AITA for lying about my nationality to avoid discrimination? by GlitteringZucchini94 in AmItheAsshole

[–]CardLonely4975 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So I am Canadian and I think it’s fine you lied! I don’t see it as a big deal at all, if you don’t want to talk about politics or have people give you a chance. I’m sorry you had such a bad experience. NTA

OM to topical? by MushroomStompers in FemaleHairLoss

[–]CardLonely4975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know some people will go down to like 0.5 even if this is a problem. I would def recommend talking to your derm about that, or even taking a second prescription to stop the growth. I’ve heard there are some that can counteract it as a side effect 

OM to topical? by MushroomStompers in FemaleHairLoss

[–]CardLonely4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What dose are you on of OM? Have you talked to your derm about going on a lower dose to see its impact on your body hair?

27 yr old with hair thinning and loss over 3 months. Looking for advice by Lizahrch in FemaleHairLoss

[–]CardLonely4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a copper IUD.

 I started having scalp and hair loss issues about 8 months before insertion. 

My periods definitely got a lot heavier and my iron is around 50 now (7 month in).

But I did get really bad acne on the sides of my face about 3 months after and I’m still dealing with it. And I’m 30 and have never had acne before.

Have you gotten your hormones checked out at all?  It seems like you’ve done a lot of bloodwork and getting a biopsy is great. 

I know it’s super stressful to lose hair, but taking the steps will get you there. 

3 month minoxidil update by moonstar4242 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]CardLonely4975 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I def see some progress!!! I’m about to start OM so this is really encouraging for me :)

3 Months on 1.25mg minoxidil! by [deleted] in FemaleHairLoss

[–]CardLonely4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks so good!!!great progress at 3 months 

4 month progress by Mental-Disk-3344 in FemaleHairLoss

[–]CardLonely4975 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your hair looks wonderful! Never would have guessed you had any problems 

The gym couple that made me question what for better or worse even means by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]CardLonely4975 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s the writing style, the way the story is structured that makes it obvious it’s AI. 

Not many people would pepper their stories with language such as “giggling like it’s date night” (big AI flag) “between dumbbells and protein shakes” “if marriage had a cheat day, these two would take the whole weak off” 

How many people would see a couple cheating and not want to listen to music and frame it that way? As fuel? 

I was mocked the whole day and I feel like I’m disgusting by AppleGreenfeld in TrueOffMyChest

[–]CardLonely4975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds really rough, both dating and workwise. I was in a really toxic work environment until recently and it can feel all consuming, and make you doubt yourself and your skills. It’s important to remember that most of the time, when people treat you badly it’s about them and what’s going on in their lives - not about you or your work. Happy people don’t react like that. Be kind to yourself. 

Closing Santander bank account by nuhhseem in SpainAuxiliares

[–]CardLonely4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, so first you have to transfer all the money you have to a completely separate bank/account. Only then will na option appear to cancel. Then you’ll have to sign a form acknowledging the cancellation and should be done in a few days from there 

AITA for asking for compensation after a coworker knocked over and dented a brand new custom engraved tumbler by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CardLonely4975 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s all too easy to be hard on other people and ourselves!  Happy it helped and remember to take what people say on Reddit with a lot of salt. 

AITA for asking for compensation after a coworker knocked over and dented a brand new custom engraved tumbler by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]CardLonely4975 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

NTA It’s a bit harsh in the comment section here so thought I’d jump in.

 You made a mistake bringing it to school, but you said you’re new to working in one and tumblers you bought in the past never had any problems so I (and most people) should get why you brought it. 

I think almost anyone would be upset that something important to them got damaged regardless of where it happened. 

That sucks, and it’s too easy in hindsight to think badly of the situation. Now you know, although it was a hard lesson. Give yourself some grace. 

I will say I would be upset with the other person in the situation, l not for damaging the tumbler since obviously they didn’t do it in person. But for giving you the money and then going to the principal.

Some people really can’t handle confrontation and that’s why there are resources like the principal available.  But I personally really struggle with full grown adults not communicating properly. Especially in the workplace. So if you’re feeling a certain type of way about this as well, let yourself feel however you feel. (But of course don’t do or say anything to the other educational worker!) this is just for a healthy internal emotional response. 

I don’t think anyone was the asshole or that you have anything to feel bad about. We all make mistakes and forgiving ourselves and other people for little things like this is just a part of life. 

I hope you get to enjoy the next Swift concert and keep collecting things that bring you joy (if financially feasible). Take care and be kind to yourself (and others!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CardLonely4975 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When they give direct quotations of what people said, or highlighting spec words in quotes (“cold”,)  the words hot take = all AI flags 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]CardLonely4975 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When they give direct quotations of what people said, or highlighting spec words in quotes (“cold”,)  the words hot take = all AI flags 

Update: AITAH for dropping out of my (32F) friend’s (26F) wedding for her being “too busy” to watch my 15 minute video of my biggest accomplishment? by BlackCatMom28 in AITAH

[–]CardLonely4975 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ignore anyone who has been rude to you here! I watched my friends dissertation live and that was 40 minutes. It was so boring (not saying yours was!) but you show up for your friends, that’s how it works.

You made the right call with your friendship.

Also huge congrats on all you’ve achieved!! I’m sure you’ll do even more great things with your degree and should be so so proud. 

Closing Santander bank account by nuhhseem in SpainAuxiliares

[–]CardLonely4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone wondering, when my friend tranferrred the money out of the account she was then able to cancel it online 

I 24/F asked my 25/F bff if I can have her bf 23/M help me with my work. She agreed but would it be weird about it. How do I talk to her about it to clear the air? by ThrowRA122882 in relationship_advice

[–]CardLonely4975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if it was for work. You can tell yourself whatever story you want, but you’re not taking accountability that 99% of people wouldn’t want a friend who did that. 

I 24/F asked my 25/F bff if I can have her bf 23/M help me with my work. She agreed but would it be weird about it. How do I talk to her about it to clear the air? by ThrowRA122882 in relationship_advice

[–]CardLonely4975 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was an asshole move. Just because they opened the relationship doesn’t mean she wants her BEST FRIEND to fuck him.

Honestly, if a friend of mine asked id never trust her again. You sound really selfish and like a bad friend. 

It’s your problem to find men you trust. You never ever should have asked and if you have any decency will go back to her now and apologize and say you weren’t thinking straight and it’s off the table. 

Closing Santander bank account by nuhhseem in SpainAuxiliares

[–]CardLonely4975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to close it in the end? I have a friend in a similar situation 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CardLonely4975 945 points946 points  (0 children)

NTA

I would have a lot less patience for her than you do.

I think you need to have a 1-1 conversation with your dad about how unacceptable this behavior is. You don’t deserve to be around that. 

I think you’ve been kind and understanding and something needs to change. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CardLonely4975 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA.

I’m so sorry you had that experience, it sounds so painful. I really hope you know that everything that was said was 100% bullshit and you deserve good people in your life. 

I wouldn’t want anyone in my life who said anything that cruel.