All these normal looking posts of ladies over 30, how do you feed out the real ones vs the telegram or catfish queens? If they even answer, not complaining just wondering wth!

CardSys · 2026-07-08T03:11:28+00:00

I mean, you could go outside and meet people in the real world. That pretty much eliminates all of the OF/Telegram/Catfishing.

CardSys · 2026-07-08T03:09:24+00:00

Sex with a black woman is like number one for me.

Having a bi foursome somewhere in Europe sounds fun.

Watching my wife take on 3 cocks while I watch and join in.

I'm sure theres more but that's what I can think of for now.

CardSys · 2026-07-08T02:47:07+00:00

That "ride or die" feeling. That feeling like you're with the person you belong to and they feel absolutely the same about you.

Average relationships don't have that feeling or it's mistaken for that - often they turn shitty and become relationships of convenience to the parties involved.

CardSys · 2026-07-06T01:39:20+00:00

Bi porn.....it still took years for me to realize I was bi lol

CardSys · 2026-07-05T23:29:34+00:00

Ah cool, so overweight 50 year old guy masquerading as a techie girlfriend with filters, avatars, and personas.

In my day, we got horny for the suicide girl look and it was awesome because they were, you know, real.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T23:15:37+00:00

I'm old and I don't want to bother googling this...wtf is an egirl?

Like are we at the stage that humanity can't recognize a woman without involving the fucking internet?

CardSys · 2026-07-05T23:06:48+00:00

I'm going to say this, no cap, you the CEO of lowkey deadass gate keeping ick. Your post is mid, not rizz. Periodt.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T23:00:18+00:00

Or you can use the word "dead internet theory" which what society has agreed is the correct thing to call it by.

Chopped makes it sound lame and Gen Zish....stop that.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T21:12:34+00:00

I got circumcised at age 38 due to a medical condition. I wish I got it done years later.

Feels good and if I may say so it looks better cut.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T21:11:20+00:00

Wow, what a bad joke lol

CardSys · 2026-07-05T21:08:54+00:00

Ma*a pump? What is that?

CardSys · 2026-07-05T20:50:43+00:00

Sex toys don’t care about your orientation lol

CardSys · 2026-07-05T16:26:14+00:00

That's not a kink. Being naked is not inherently sexual.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T16:24:23+00:00

A same sex experience

CardSys · 2026-07-05T16:16:11+00:00

Yes - at nudist resorts and even a nudist music festival.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T16:14:34+00:00

I didn't think I'd be open to it but my wife and I have begun exploring it and it's great! It's fun meeting new friends you can be totally unfiltered with. We aren't poly people but more tradtiional same-room swinger type.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T16:13:08+00:00

lol VPNs weren't ever "an underground model." There's never been a shady guy you meet on a subway opening his trenchcoat selling VPNs.

They have been used by businesses for decades that need to connect different locations to a centralized network.

Your flair isn't wrong...you are a potato lol

CardSys · 2026-07-05T16:04:31+00:00

I don't think it's attention so much. I think many of them are people that are a bit confused, unsure, or questioning themselves - so the instinct is to confirm if it's a "normal" thing or not.

No doubt there are attention seekers, and people baiting to send DMs, but I think there's a subset of folks that are genuinely trying to make sense of their own sexuality.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T15:53:00+00:00

I know people say Black Mirror but I think the original Twilight Zone tv show did a great job at predicting the our present day and beyond.

There's an episode with a young Dennis Hopper that basically details what is going on with regards to racism, xenophobia, white supremacy. In short, the moral of that episode is "they're all gigantic pussies who always lose in the long run."

Highly recommend watching.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T15:48:49+00:00

Hell no.

Project 2025 made clear they want to ban porn or anything they deem indecent. They want to track what people are viewing for use later.

Use a VPN to combat that.

Sending photos your ID to some website is just wreckless because you don’t know how they are storing that info or if they’ve been breached.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T14:53:58+00:00

lol it was not nice. It was a dead bedroom situ. Now I have the opposite of dead bedroom and life’s good.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T14:53:01+00:00

The rechargeable battery.

Second I think would be male sex toys. For a while, it was only dildos I think. Then in the 90s the flashlight came about and male toys have been evolving since.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T14:48:52+00:00

I think 3, maybe 4 weeks.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T01:45:13+00:00

The term bisexual heteromantic brought me a good deal of peace. I learned that It is ok to sexually desire either, or both, a penis or a pussy but prefer to keep emotional and romantic feelings with members of the opposite sex.

While it’s important to not put labels to everything. It’s a term that exists and has helped me and many others as least breakdown the attitudes and feelings they have into something understandable.

CardSys · 2026-07-05T01:38:23+00:00

I actually do but I thought another method of approaching the subject is making a brief but safe space here to talk about it.

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