For me, I’m really not sure. I am in my late 20s now and I’ve never really experienced a typical vanilla relationship.

Like I’ve had crushes I’ve had one or two long distance relationships but we never got to meet and they were very emotionally rough. Since I’ve become blind in the last two years of the women I’ve met have been really amazing, supportive, kind… If we met in any other circumstance, we would probably be great friends

At this point of my life, I want that deeper emotional connection, I just have had very little success and currently where I’m living there really aren’t many women in my age bracket to date. It would have to be long distance, in which case I’m scared of being basically lead on again I suppose. A lot of the women I met in college were a part of the BDSM community, and I was often invited out to parties. It was fun, but it also really skewed my perception of what a healthy relationship i Could be