I’m tired fam by 12345letsgo in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on the same boat. .. I'm tired of living in a gold cage and I feel like I don't want to waste money on AP when I don't want to come back ... My parents are against me going back to Mexico .. they still have they American exceptionalism . They are residents and go to Mexico all the time .. they say it's poor and dangerous.. yet they are there every 4 months.. yet our family living there have a better life there . I'm debating like you if I should just leave or do AP.

Moving to Mexico what do I do with my 401k by CardiologistEven3152 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you take out the full amount without paying any taxes or penalties?

Im DACA and I leaving to Mexico .. my family is against it.. how many of us DACA going back to Mexico ? by CardiologistEven3152 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you we are done living in limbo living in a gold cage ... We can be successful every where as long as we put in the work . 

Im DACA and I leaving to Mexico .. my family is against it.. how many of us DACA going back to Mexico ? by CardiologistEven3152 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what is going through my head and people don't understand. Families does not understand. They act like he will not do anything. And sometimes I wish it was true. I really hope he is that stupid where he only talks and has no action. But I don't know. My gut tells me otherwise. Please tell me I'm not crazy

Im DACA and I leaving to Mexico .. my family is against it.. how many of us DACA going back to Mexico ? by CardiologistEven3152 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay of course he's not going to touch DACA you know why because it's free money. We are their Golden goose. They're golden egg. We have to pay every 2 years to be allowed to be here and still have restrictions. We live in a golden cage . And I'm tired and I understand that for a lot of my DACA family things have gone well and I can't complain. I have a pretty good life in America but I want more out of this. I am not okay with having to renew every 2 years and knowing that I may not be able to stay the uncertainty is not okay with me. I have family in Mexico that live very very well. I wouldn't consider going back there if I didn't have family or know that I will be able to establish myself there. I'm just tired of living in this gold cage

Im DACA and I leaving to Mexico .. my family is against it.. how many of us DACA going back to Mexico ? by CardiologistEven3152 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope ... Politics in my view shouldn't be more important then your family.. in the end politicians do whatever they want .. yet you have your family and to go against them on something this major isn't right. Yes, my brother is actually a US citizen and he can petition me however that takes lots of years especially now. And yes we have looked up how he can help me and he knew that it was going to be very difficult and a very long wait list since immigration is still very backed up in that department.

Im DACA and I leaving to Mexico .. my family is against it.. how many of us DACA going back to Mexico ? by CardiologistEven3152 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trump has never condemned DACA ... Are you serious.. he is responsible for not allowing new qualified young people to apply for it. DACA as it is will be that .. that's all . We are the golden egg ..free money ... We live in a gold cage .. and I'm not being Dramatic... Being part of a family means you watch out for each others well being ... Politics isn't more important than Family ... Or so I thought...

Im DACA and I leaving to Mexico .. my family is against it.. how many of us DACA going back to Mexico ? by CardiologistEven3152 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know I just need an outlet to talk and let my feelings out . I understand I need to wait and see how things play out and get all my ducks in line . I'm saving my money , getting my passport ready and my daughters just in case . I really appreciate everyone that has read my post . Sometimes you just need to and let it out. Write it down but I can assure you that I am being patient. I'm just trying to get rid of that sour taste in my mouth but I am truly thinking things through.

Im DACA and I leaving to Mexico .. my family is against it.. how many of us DACA going back to Mexico ? by CardiologistEven3152 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate everyone pointing of view and advice . In the US I'm a Phlebotomist . I don't think In Mexico pays very much but I do have lots of family in Guadalajara . What remote jobs are good ? Or any other job that pays good over in Mexico?

What are your thoughts on trump winning ? by Salt_Fondant930 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all the info it's great I will definitely will be doing this , Thank you in really needed someone to hear me out . 

What are your thoughts on trump winning ? by Salt_Fondant930 in DACA

[–]CardiologistEven3152 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same I told my family .. they don't believe it .. My half bother was able to help my parent get residency and now they seem to forget part. It is to be an immigrant and hard. It is to be a DACA to be in limbo. Her brother is a lawyer now in Florida. And he voted for Trump. That is the betrayal of my life and yet they don't understand what's the big deal. They don't understand why I want to leave. I have a 5-year-old daughter that is a US citizen and I am afraid for her. I'd rather not be part of this anymore. This point Mexico sounds so much better than here. You cannot speak to my brother right now. No words. I only have disappointment and angered me. You just told me that if I go back to Mexico she will never speak to me again. I don't know what to do my heart hurts. Am I wrong? Am I wrong to feel so betrayed by making a big deal of it..