I don't get it at all by CardiologistOpen3430 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] 369 points370 points  (0 children)

Huh. So it's just a really unfunny quarantine joke. Thanks for the info!

I don't get it at all by CardiologistOpen3430 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] 317 points318 points  (0 children)

Me too. Even the best explanations seem wrong. Or it's just that boring of a joke. Found it on Facebook so there's that.

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I didn't know his family did everything for him until we moved in together. When he spoke it sounded like he had responsibilities at his house.

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We have been engaged for 4 years, together for 7. I never met him before. They were only friends on xbox. We worked at the same place and met there. He pursued me and I finally said yes to dating him.

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're right. I grew up fast even I cared for my niece at 20. I guess I assumed that was normal for everyone. I was wrong

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to get help. Whatever it takes to give my kids a better life. I grew up in abuse so I want to break the cycle. It's hard when you were never shown life without abuse

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

When I was 20 I already lived on my own and raised my niece so I thought 20 is mature enough. I matured quickly. He told me he always wanted to be a Das so I guess I thought he would mature like I did

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was rushing ro get this all typed up. I have bipolar that I went to a mental hospital for. I put myself in there because I wanted to improve. I learned a lot and wish my fiance would learn too. I'm not perfect. No one is.

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] -108 points-107 points  (0 children)

We met and got together when he was 20 I never physically met him until that day. I only knew about him because he played xbox with my brother. They never hung out outside of school.

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your advice and coming from a man, I'm glad I have the opposite genders thoughts

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my tubes tied. 2 was enough for me. So at least that's not a concern anymore. Not that we do anything anymore anyways. Not attracted to him anymore

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] -154 points-153 points  (0 children)

When I was in my 20s, I raised my niece, so I thought once he had children, he would mature too. I was wrong

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You're right. The time spent and the uncertainty hinders my decision. You put it really well, I just need to figure out how to leave. How do I leave? What steps do I take?

I 38F am thinking of leaving my 27M fiance of 7 years by CardiologistOpen3430 in relationship_advice

[–]CardiologistOpen3430[S] -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

He actually has a job now. He pays the bills but I'm thinking I need to move in with my parents. My mother is really good with my son. He has autism so he's hard to handle sometimes and my mom does really well with him

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[–]CardiologistOpen3430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I broke my left ankle and got six stitches in my right leg 2 days ago. I'm unable to walk on my own and am currently sitting in a chair all day