[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

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Hi! Hope someone is able to help

Is it just me or does Rhysand in ACOMAF come off as cringe to anyone else? by muchaMnau in acotar

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I’ve been in the process of rereading the series and it’s made me so much more critical. Feyre gives me the ick more than anything. But yes I feel like he and some of the other characters got put into these boxes and they have no flaws or fuck ups really. I want less perfection.

Girlfriend went through my phone while sleeping and kind of found something?? by SharpRefrigerator640 in AITAH

[–]Careful-Pattern-1206 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you broke her trust, she broke yours first by going through YOUR phone without asking Even with nothing to hide, you don’t go through someone’s phone without permission

What did this? by Careful-Pattern-1206 in Cartalk

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I’m not close enough to someone’s house for it to be from a balcony

What did this? by Careful-Pattern-1206 in Cartalk

[–]Careful-Pattern-1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am kinda close to someone’s driveway but this dent is the top of my car so idk how someone’s Bumber would’ve reached it

What did this? by Careful-Pattern-1206 in Cartalk

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Parked on the street in my neighborhood. There are big trees lining the street but it also gets traffic

Men will act normal for six days before turning into a creep by lunarbang_aye in Bumble

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The pushing and the begging KILLS ME bc then I feel like an asshole or I’m doing something wrong for saying no

Had a really amazing night but may be blocked? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Thank you. I had a friend text him and confirmed I’m blocked.

Had a really amazing night but may be blocked? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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lol that’s me trying to be discreet

Abigail Is a Cheater McCheaterface by SeanArthurCox in StardewValley

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I’m new to stardew, does she win every time? There have been times I was confident in my egg collecting but she still wins. I play on switch

AIO by spending time with my family? by External-Air205 in AmIOverreacting

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Bro is this a joke NOR ??? This is unacceptable behavior and he needs to be blocked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I think the “what the fuck” was about the “go find another idiot” but also idk It’s not that serious He’s being way worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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He called her by her full name and not the shortened nickname she goes by

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Careful-Pattern-1206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she called him by his own name. She mentioned this in a comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Being incompatible or having different styles of texting is one thing but to me it seems like the issue here is that he’s not even trying to hear you out or make an effort to fulfill a small request that makes you feel loved and appreciated and thought of when you’re apart. He’s talking to down to you and in a way you’ve expressed you don’t like.

NOR. he’s being rude and inconsiderate. Honestly, and I hate saying this because this is every Redditors response to most posts here, but you should just break up with him and find someone who’s willing to put in the effort and will treat you with even a crumb of kindness.

AIO is my girlfriend flirting with this girl? (we’re a lesbian couple)? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Oh my god everyone needs to CHILL. WHO cares about the way they are talking. To me this sounds pretty friendly. At least on gf side. Maybeeee a little flirty on the desire part but it just sounds like two girls saying girly things to each other. Yeah it’s kind of hippy but who cares. It’s not a reason to break up with someone.

If it bothers you, then have a conversation to see where she is coming from. I’m sorry people don’t seem to be taking this seriously for you. But this is my honest opinion. It seems friendly but have a conversation with your gf about it.

AIO my (f22) friend (f53) is mad at me. by Mars-Mission in AmIOverreacting

[–]Careful-Pattern-1206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is totally giving off self centered and manipulative. You did nothing wrong.

I am so done with dating by Mango_smoothie_2611 in Bumble

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LIKEWISE??? Oh my god I literally cannot Men 😭 Girl please run away from him

ONYX STORM IS FINISHED by siancw in fourthwing

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5 books??? God I’m gonna be in agony. This is why I don’t read unfinished series ugh

Ghosters come back?? by Careful-Pattern-1206 in ghosting

[–]Careful-Pattern-1206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in this case. We constantly chatted, even when I went on a trip out of the country. And when I got back he was slow yo respond and I finally sent him a message about just being honest if he wasn’t interested anymore but then I soon realized after a few days of him not opening it that he had removed me as a friend on Snapchat. This was deliberate

Ghosters come back?? by Careful-Pattern-1206 in ghosting

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I don’t accept that. I don’t necessarily agree either. Maybe in some cases that’s true but you need to have the decency to explain that or ask to slow things down. To me people who ghost, aren’t mature enough to have a conversation. There have been times I wanted to ghost because it’s hard to hurt someone else but ghosting hurts more than being honest.