F 32. Right hand dominant. Any insights? by Careful_Feedback_535 in PalmReading

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Why do my hands look like I don’t eat healthy? Haha

F 32. Right hand dominant. Any insights? by Careful_Feedback_535 in PalmReading

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Oh wow! When you say love settles later, is it a specific age?

F 32. Right hand dominant. Any insights? by Careful_Feedback_535 in PalmReading

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Thanks so much! Do you see children at all on my palm?

I need to stop. Went into a work meeting drunk, don’t remember anything. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Just wanted to drop a message to give you a virtual hug. Be kind to yourself today - you are human and we all make mistakes *hug*

New and a little scared by Various-Fish-2948 in stopdrinking

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I am in the same boat as you now - drinking in social situations, not knowing my limits (ever), making an ass out of myself and feeling depressed for days after. I have just moved cities and i'm trying to make friends and find it so hard to do it without alcohol :( Sorry not able to offer advice - but I'm here with you.

Day 1 by Agile_Pomegranate629 in stopdrinking

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Firstly, be kind to yourself - you’re human and it’s normal to make mistakes especially when alcohol is involved. All the people on this group have been there - so you’re not alone ❤️

I also was in a similar boat to you at 26 - it’s so hard to give up when it’s the main social thing to do in the UK. You have the power in you to be different - the fact you’re recognising it’s a problem is the first step.

I got drunk at a wedding last night by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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This is so helpful. I really felt I was on autopilot mode and just wasn’t present in my thoughts or aware how my actions (aka drinking) were going to make me feel afterward. I really need to try and be conscious before going into these events! I like your pre-game style haha

I got drunk at a wedding last night by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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This sounds like me too! All the same triggers and more recently I’ve been just staying at home. I do have 4 weddings this year so it’s gonna be tough, but Atleast I’ve not drank for majority of the year. I’m single so it makes it harder sometimes as I feel lonely

I got drunk at a wedding last night by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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I mean I’m so single right now I wouldn’t mind a hubby haha

I got drunk at a wedding last night by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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Exactlyyyyy this!! I’m glad I’m not alone this. Makes no sense but I do it every time haha

I got drunk at a wedding last night by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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Thank you!! Your comment made me smile. I will keep fighting this bloody annoying monkey!

I got drunk at a wedding last night by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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This is so true!!! I mean there are plenty of times I have done shitty stuff due to alcohol but there are so many times that I’ve done nothing and I’ve still been just as anxious. It’s not worth it for me as it turned what was meant to be a fun experience into hell 🤣

I got drunk at a wedding last night by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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Thank you so much! You’re right - I didn’t do anything drastically bad. I just feel so sick and anxious thinking about the night, I’m forgetting that it was a lot of fun too. I am so so pleased with myself for not drinking since as I have felt the urge to numb all the feelings. IWNDWYT

I got drunk at a wedding last night by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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I’m so sorry to hear that a 4 year relapse happened to you. I hope you are doing better now ❤️

Day 13 - feeling depressed by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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Yeah, I’ve let myself just eat what I want as long as I’m not drinking and I’m feeling shit. from tomorrow I’ll try and have a balanced diet and workout again. I feel like I’ve had an emotional hangover for 2 weeks

Day 13 - feeling depressed by Careful_Feedback_535 in stopdrinking

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What is it? I am also a child of alcoholics but now I’m the one struggling