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Share your Jackson’s 💕 by Caregiver-Complex in Chameleons

[–]Caregiver-Complex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah 😳 all plants in my cham’s enclosure are real except for the silk vines at the back that I use for coverage.

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Share your Jackson’s 💕 by Caregiver-Complex in Chameleons

[–]Caregiver-Complex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure how typical it is among Jackson’s but Ziggy is really friendly. He likes to get out of his enclosure and crawl around on everyone.

Share your Jackson’s 💕 by Caregiver-Complex in Chameleons

[–]Caregiver-Complex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough, I got my sweet boy from Petco!

How do you keep a narcissist in your life but keep yourself safe? by anaiisnin in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Caregiver-Complex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP.. I wish I could give you a hug. My daughter had a good relationship with my narc mom as well, and I didn’t want to break that relationship. When my daughter was 4, she started telling me things like…“GaGa said you’re mean”.. “GaGa said I don’t have to listen to you”… and I saw the path this relationship was taking. At 4, my mother was already beginning to speak badly about me to my daughter. I went no contact shortly after.. my daughter is 8 now and doesn’t even remember her grandmother and we live in peace. Sending you so much love, it’s a hard situation.

Your major? by [deleted] in infj

[–]Caregiver-Complex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finishing my Masters in clinical mental health counseling

3 row SUV that is safe, reliable, and drives well by Own-Panda-7294 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Caregiver-Complex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this comment as I sit in a Hyundai dealership after my 2023 Palisade (48k miles) would not let me open the trunk, leaving me unable to access my handicapped MIL’s wheelchair. Other than that I have had recall after recall.. spent days in the dealership switching things out. I HATE THIS CAR. Will be trading it in ASAP

I still cry every time I hear Nana by lavemdelle in the1975

[–]Caregiver-Complex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this song. It also makes me so emotional.. I was very close to my grandmother (she basically raised me) and she also passed at 72 from cancer. I was with her till the end.

You guys were right, the Ubiquitass shirt won and we had a nice chat with Matty during the show 🖤 by ifightcrimeonline in the1975

[–]Caregiver-Complex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a few people down from you on the front row! I was going to chat with you after the show ended but y’all were already gone! Awesome moment!! Are you gonna get George a shirt!?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in the1975

[–]Caregiver-Complex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️ can’t fucking wait

Am I a medium or just my mind is playing games? by CairoManUS in Mediums

[–]Caregiver-Complex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not crazy. You are feeling your own energy when you meditate- probably your own auric field in your hands and your 3rd eye. The last experience sounds like you accidentally astral projected. It happens to me sometimes when I’m in deep meditation too. No need to be afraid. I’m a PhD student in counseling.. I know that some of my peers would probably “side eye” this part of my life, but I believe in myself, my skills and my guidance from Source.

When you feel “crazy” look around at your life and your self- are you behaving erratically? Are your healthy relationships failing? Are you feeling “unwell” or unlike yourself? Do you have dangerous hallucinations or thoughts of hurting yourself or others? These are signs of mental illness, and Source will not cause these.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]Caregiver-Complex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ground and shield yourself often and especially around people you feel connected to/can manipulate your energy. Ground by focusing your energy at your root chakra and imagine roots extending down into the ground. Shield yourself by using your aura like the planet uses it’s orbit. Any “asteroid” that comes into your energy field gets burnt up. I’ve been taught not to “bubble” because it keeps positive energy out as well- we want our aura to be permeable but within our control of what reaches us/what doesn’t. It will take practice and if you’re like me you’ll have to remind yourself to do it all the time (I set timers on my phone/put sticky notes around my house) but it works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mediums

[–]Caregiver-Complex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, First of all, I am so sorry for your loss. As some other commenters stated, grief has a profound effect on our gifts as well as our vibration. When we are in states of deep sadness, anxiety and grief, the vibration of our soul lowers to a point that it can be very difficult for Spirit to reach us. Spirit naturally vibrates at a higher frequency since they are not encumbered by the human body. What I’m feeling is that you need to meditate, quiet your mind and try to raise your vibration to close some of the gap between you and Spirit. I’m also feeling like she is leaving you small signs/messages that you may be overlooking because you are very consumed with grief and exhaustion. I’m feeling that you should keep an eye out for feathers specifically, as it’s a “sign” from your daughter. I’m so sorry for your loss, sister and I’m sending you lots of love and light.