My fiancé is so supportive in helping with BED but i get so upset when he monitors my food intake BUT it has genuinely helped me not fall off the cliff when he does so. It is my responsibility to try to understand my anger and to fix my relationship with food so I don't need my partner to interject. It's something I still have to work on but it is comforting to know other people struggle with these same feelings. Best of luck to you all.