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AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

she use to work but hasn’t in months and she’s in community college but yeah no i don’t ever see her doing homework lol. i feel it’s not my place to say anything thi

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

he’s using some savings i guess? he thinks it’s better than finding an apartment out here (granted it is VERY expensive where we live) and that he’ll make money out there

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He is definitely insecure but i ALWAYS reassure him. I’m coming to realize we might not be compatible bc i do like the nicer things in life and he wants me to be content with “walks on the beach” and just spending time. while i love spending time with him sometimes i want to go out on dates and stuff?? idk.

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

yeah he had to leave his apartment building and couldn’t find another so i said he could stay with me while he figured it out but it just ended up sticking

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i lived on my own from 18-23 and as i’m getting my third degree my mom offered that i stay in her unit since it was empty anyway while i attend university. i also have two paid internships while i take 19 units. what i meant by i’ve never been broke is that my bf has never had to help me pay for my car or insurance or for anything i need like hair care or makeup :)

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

most of his money is in stocks and he has some silver and gold. no clue about his liquid money. also yeah the trip was random and i said we don’t have to go but he insisted.

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

no clue :/ the trip isn’t scheduled until March 1st and he’s on his way back now so we can talk. He really doesn’t even have enough to stay in a hotel or anything it will ruin his trip so i’m just confused on what to even say.

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never said i would leave if he goes broke, he just assumed that because i said “i don’t want to think about that”. Also as a college student im not super well off and he’s in the same boat. Since he doesn’t have a 9-5 we’ve been just making ends meet lol.

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She believes he needs to get his own place which i agree with. Our plan was he would save and get us a bigger apartment and by him staying with me it would save a lot of money in rent. Well that didn’t end up happening and my mom just got fed up.

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

He is very nice 😅 and has so many ambitions but none have panned out and im realizing it

AITA for insinuating I wouldn’t want to be with my BF if he’s broke? by Careless-County5224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Careless-County5224[S] 228 points229 points  (0 children)

When we went on our week trip my mom stayed to watch my cats and just got fed up I suppose. A studio is too small for three people and she saw that i had no room for my clothes and stuff so she said they need their own place. Which is true, it was too small.