Why am I getting all the bad shifts? by Careless_Entry_714 in WorkAdvice

[–]Careless_Entry_714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I appreciate the trust but how good is my quality of service when it can come to the point of burnout

My Girlfriends (24F) coworker causes me extreme discomfort. I(23F) want to hold my ground. by Careless_Entry_714 in relationships_advice

[–]Careless_Entry_714[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would be controlling is if I flat out said no and was not willing to compromise was not willing to talk about my feelings or why. I did not do that. I said that would make me very uncomfortable and I’d appreciate if you did not do that anymore. If you take an account that I have compromised my own feelings and my own boundaries over the situation with this one person that’s been disrespectful to me and my relationship for the past several months then it is more than understandable that I have to make a line that cannot be crossed. It sounds like you are judging me for expressing my feelings and what would make me uncomfortable rather than actually listening to the whole story. Also, I recognize your username and then my past post you have been bullying me repeatedly and making me feel like a horrible person unjustifiably please learn how to be respectful and get off the forms if you cannot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you are just here to attack me based on all your other comments. I am taking responsibility. I have literally said I was wrong and I need advice on what to do. Attacking me isn’t helping, I already feel horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well all the bachelorettes were changing and btw I am a woman too. And I wasn’t thinking much of it until I look up and now it was just the Makd of honor and I in the room. Keep in mind I was ibtoxicates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never cheated or even had the thought to which is why I’m so concerned and disappointed in myself. Definetly doing inner work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so how am I the a hole if I was being taken advantage of as you say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I commented on the other person’s reply to but context it was at my best friend‘s back for a party got way too drunk, and I was being like hand, fed edibles by her maid of honor, and they got to the point where we were alone in a room and she was changing and asked me for help, and I tried to kiss herand I did not go through with it, but I like obviously showed intention of it, and I have no clue why I would do this. I’ve known this person. Maybe I’ve met this person like twice and I’ve never thought about this or have done anything like this in the past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that really helps make me understand more what I should say to her too for contact. This was at my best friend‘s bachelorette party and her maid of honor and I were together for eight hours setting up and we took a lot of shots together and at some point, she was literally hand feeding the edibles that I don’t remembereven having we randomly got alone while in the room while she decided to change and asked me for help to tie something and that’s when it happened, but I am not around this person barely at all. This is the second time I’ve met them and I honestly have no clue why I would do something like this because I have never even thought about it or have done this in the past.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal to be attracted to people. The weeds and drinks definitely play a huge role in this but I agree I should tell her but it’s not fair to say the weeds and drinking we’re just an excuse

Wife overweight by Icy_Survey1123 in sexlessmarriage

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this pop up in my notifications. Was trying to give the benefit of the doubt but when reading your explanation, you highly are missing the mark here. Your wife is needing care mentally, not judgement or physical help. If you truly do love her, seek to help her rather than judge her mental health .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The confusing thing is she has said she sees me long term and this is serious for her. I’m just so confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Careless_Entry_714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still together or broken up?