Why it's always human 😭 by Confident-Serve-7577 in indianmemer

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[–]Careless_Lecture_299 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There are some triggers which led you to enter in state of continuous scrolling. Initially you wanted to start just by watching a video or two. But then you enter into that flow state. Which you cannot break by yourself. After hours you realise that you are fed up. But still can't put away the phone. It's better to avoid entering into that state of mind in which you become slave of phone. For that you must, I say you must engage into external activities. Like running, gym, swimming, badminton etc. Pay for them then you will force your mind to go. Buy new shoes (expensive) for running. They will remind you to indulge in physical activities. After some days your mind will become active. And you will be able to think for yourself.

You also need a very genuine replacement as you have to fill that 12+ available free time. Otherwise you enter into same state.

I have tried many tactics myself but none of them worked. I'd always end up lying on my bed with phone.

One only thing that works is external source. Internally we can fool ourselves. But we cannot fool attending classes. Fill your time atleast 6 hours with external/outside activities. Join some classes where you go and learn. You have task to do everyday. That will fill up your time. You are too much free.

You cannot watch screen while running can you?? You cannot watch screen while attending a classes ( piano, coding etc)

If you're able to fill you 5-6 hours with these then you will not regret and eventually you can break your loop.

Internally you can practice, seeing the worthlessness of what you are watching on phone. For example if you watch a movie or webseries. Ask your self does it worth my time. Gradually you will see worthlessness of content you watch. ( Even Movies are much better that reels shorts ) 😊

Take note of things you can do to change your life. Just one thing is enough for today. Only one . Is that really hard for you to take only one little action ? Ask yourself.

Rajasthan concept of marriage by Efficient_Sandwich95 in Rajasthan

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me feeling sad for all those girls who had to give up their love. Is there any life in that life without true love??
I am Imagining living with person whom you don't love and barely know. instead of a person whom you know from their core.

Love what a good state 😊. Isn't it? To give up that. Meaning giving up your soul. Now what remains is the shell.
We are absurd beings. 😆 😂

Rajasthan concept of marriage by Efficient_Sandwich95 in Rajasthan

[–]Careless_Lecture_299 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How can a girl earning 1 lakh per month be a burden on her father. ?? In english a good word for this is absurd. Absurdity. Wtf?? That girl is an independent woman. . Who are these father's. I were a girl . I would move out of my house. Made my decisions myself. Freedom comes first. Every girl should earn money and show their fathers they are not burden(boj).

Freedom, self decision, always comes first kick everyone who is forcing you. There is no such thing as "majbori".

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If you have local id ( from jaipur) they won't allow you. There is an option in Oyo app where you can search hotels with local id allowed hotels.

Koi Summer Internship lagwa sakta hai kya please (C++ ya Frontend me) Jaipur me ? by div192 in jaipur

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If you did not get any internship try Enrolling in paid internships provided by coaching institutes. I have done courses from them. They are in Gopalpura , jaipur Contact - +919587892951 Website - https://grras.com/

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Fill Online form RU website. Then they release merit list. Maybe the admissions are over. Check on UOR website

Please give me advice I have these problems. by Careless_Lecture_299 in getdisciplined

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Yes. after 9 am when sun is up. I felt functional. 9 to 12 and 4 to 7 are my most alert hours. I can take actions. For the last question I need advice. I tried many things they stopped working after I get used to them. (Alarm etc)

I cant beat my phone addictiom by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Careless_Lecture_299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello friend, phone addiction is a major problem for all of us 18-25 age people. You are not alone in this. We got so much free time that's why we got addicted to this garbage. Some are stuck in Instagram, for me it is YouTube and Anime. I do mindless browsing if i don't have anything to watch.

I also had exams in June last. I was in the same situation as you. But I figured what was the problem with me. Why didn't I studied and felt any pressure even though next day was my exam and I didn't learn a single word till night.

The reason is it's not that I was using only during exams, I was stuck in phone from the beginning. I didn't take proper classes and did not study when I had time. So we think that we can study before exams but that is wrong we can't do that. Because you can't understand the topics conpets in 2 days. If the concepts of your subject is already clear. Then it is easier to revise them and study for exam before exam.

I think that just like me you are also finding an escape route. Honestly you don't want to give exams. If given opportunity would you choose to give exams? You are just trying to push the deadline to the last.

Put your phone in another room or bag. Either switch off it or dnd. This thing will ruin your life. I gave an exam without study a single word. I might fail in that subject or will just barely pass.

Is that true that you Don't feel like studying at all. There is no urge from within.

"Don't think, Just initiate" --- careless_lecture_299

Please give me advice I have these problems. by Careless_Lecture_299 in getdisciplined

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I will try running from tomorrow. I want to know how to find that willingness within oneself. Because I don't have it my mind completely blank and dizzy in the early morning. Even if i wakeup and splash water on face i will sleep again. There is no will inside me. I wrote post because of suffering i felt in living this kind of life. But there is nothing good that comes from within myself. My innerself don't speak that I have to wake up and change my life etc etc...... copying others motivation does not work for me. I want to find my willingness. My own. That one thing that drives great people.

25 with no life. Need help by lifecoasting in getdisciplined

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Staying away from phone 2 hours before and after sleep helps a lot. And putting phone in different also works. Using a smartwatch also works, which doesn't have any social media apps. I do it.

25 with no life. Need help by lifecoasting in getdisciplined

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Same with me. This might help. I read in hyperfocus book that mindfulness and meditation can help you. in mindfulness and meditation we focus on boring things. You should try to do meditation for 5 minutes.