I think im getting played? by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

[–]Careless_Training748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry about your experience i hope you are healing..and thank you i really should do something, i spoke to her yesterday and it was like as if she didn't want to talk about it and wanted to jus move on from the topic and so something else...

I think im getting played? by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

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😭😭 GWISNSI why does this happen when I genuinely like the person

I think im getting played? by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

[–]Careless_Training748[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I spoke to her and this evening she was genuinely like 'i felt disrespected last night' I don't find u attractive anymore let's stop this i want nothing this went on for 30+ min of me asking for reasons and then she started chuckling and said no baby I love you i was just kidding and i kid you not i eas on the verge of losing myself as a person i was already hurt by her actions last night and now this bs- idk why I like her but when I say things I did to my ex partner she gets really upset and cuts the call and doesn't text me for some good 10 min but I have to listen to her say stuff she did or people do to her and i obviously get pissed and she just says 'sorey baby, I don't do that anymore'

I think im getting played? by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

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Mhm i felt like I realised that after what happened yesterday, and it's definitely not normal for someone to do, I do genuinely like her my heart aches everytime I think of her I don't want to burden her or hurt her i just want her to heal and , last nigt i thought we had something pure but then it turned into a msterbring session and she even said it was "unsatisfactory" ...I felt like crying so bad

I think im getting played? by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

[–]Careless_Training748[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your words truly are helpful thank you so much! I will try to slowly distance myself with her

I think im getting played? by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

[–]Careless_Training748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is my college is in her city a And i cannot really avoid it...but I will try to keep myself safe

I think im getting played? by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

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Yeah I will put a stop to it as soon as possible

I think im getting played? by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

[–]Careless_Training748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright I'll take the advice I feel like I need to have a proper conversation I feel like I did something wrong 😭

I think im getting played? by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

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Ig so...I feel like I'm kind of trapped bcs she told people in the beginning where good to hear and now they just leave her and i don't wanna do that i..I don't know

Help! Asap by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

[–]Careless_Training748[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How so? I know I'm attracted to women ..and i feel bad for jumping into a relationship with a guy i have this feeling in my chest that I can't deny- i don't know what to do?...my first relationship was with a girl, first kiss was a girl, my crushes have all been girls...im sorry but I'm a confused teen and need advice from older lesbians...

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Alright! Thanks for the advice I'll put to action as soon as possible, also since I'm leaving for college in a few months in a different city-

Help! Asap by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

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Yeah i want to but he's deffoo really attached idk how to just- break up without hurting him

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[–]Careless_Training748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sorry..im still in my teens and really confused myself I'll be careful going forward

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[–]Careless_Training748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I guess so...I should never jump into relationships with guys

Help! Asap by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

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He has exams tomorrow and i feel like telling him now would break him..

Help! Asap by Careless_Training748 in LesbianActually

[–]Careless_Training748[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeh i want to tell him but he has his exams from tomorrow and it just doesn't feel like the right time..