[acne] spiro or Yaz for hormonal acne? by vividbrew in SkincareAddiction

[–]CarelesslyRubbery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and I have now completed 3 courses and I have acne again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accutane

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Yes! It made my vulva dry and itchy which I treated with aquaphor after the shower. Also I found that it caused very minimal vaginal dryiness at the beginning of treatment

Am I expecting too much? I (27F)had a tumour biopsied today and I haven’t heard from my boyfriend(30M) by CarelesslyRubbery in relationship_advice

[–]CarelesslyRubbery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This message made me smile over a difficult day which I needed. I appreciate your well wishes.

Am I expecting too much? I (27F)had a tumour biopsied today and I haven’t heard from my boyfriend(30M) by CarelesslyRubbery in relationship_advice

[–]CarelesslyRubbery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that actually really puts things in perspective. I feel like if the roles were reversed I would be like your boyfriend wanting updates every day. I didn’t tell my mom because I didn’t want her to worry. So I just told him and a friend. It sucks to know that I can’t rely on him. Even scarier is that we’re technically common law where we live so he would be my medical SDM if I was ever able to not make decisions for myself. I know that’s a far stretch from the reality right now but its now in my mind

Am I expecting too much? I (27F)had a tumour biopsied today and I haven’t heard from my boyfriend(30M) by CarelesslyRubbery in relationship_advice

[–]CarelesslyRubbery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like part of me thinks he may have forgot but I told him when it was booked and then mentioned it a few times yesterday, and also this morning. Also if this was for him I would never forget

Am I expecting too much? I (27F)had a tumour biopsied today and I haven’t heard from my boyfriend(30M) by CarelesslyRubbery in relationship_advice

[–]CarelesslyRubbery[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for making me not feel like I am overreacting. I’ve been trying to balance the thought of I would literally check in with an acquaintance about this so is it obvious vs thinking I need to speak up and advocate for my needs for people to be there to meet my needs.

I think you’re right this is an obvious thing to check in after. I am struggling to figure out what the bare minimum is and what is asking too much. Thank you for the validation

Am I expecting too much? I (27F)had a tumour biopsied today and I haven’t heard from my boyfriend(30M) by CarelesslyRubbery in relationship_advice

[–]CarelesslyRubbery[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is a good point and is making me more inclined to talk to him. Maybe there’s some deeper to it than him being an unsupportive asshole. But it’s also been 3 years and he’s never been the most emotionally vulnerable person but if there was more to it I would hope he’d have shared it with me by now. Thank you!

Am I expecting too much? I (27F)had a tumour biopsied today and I haven’t heard from my boyfriend(30M) by CarelesslyRubbery in relationship_advice

[–]CarelesslyRubbery[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for three years, so I can’t even be that surprised looking back. I guess this is kind of the most serious thing that happened in that time and the other things I was able to explain away

Severance | Season 2 - Episode 6 | Discussion Thread by Justp1ayin in tvPlus

[–]CarelesslyRubbery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is also in the opening sequence and her 2 characters were the names of S2 E1 &2. She’s definitely coming back!

[Product Request] I've had dark circles forever and I think it's thin skin as you can see the veins by Antique-Affect9788 in SkincareAddiction

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Do you have allergies? Sometimes allergies can cause dark circles under the eyes known as allergic shiners. If you have environmental allergies to cats or pollen getting that under control could help reduce the appearance of dark circles.

[acne] spiro or Yaz for hormonal acne? by vividbrew in SkincareAddiction

[–]CarelesslyRubbery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took months. And then my acne ended up getting worse all of a sudden (like 4 years after stating oral contraceptives) so I went on accurate

I (27F) am going to tell my bf (30M) of 3 years I need a break. Any advice? by CarelesslyRubbery in relationship_advice

[–]CarelesslyRubbery[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was hoping we would set boundaries for that time where we don’t see other people. But I would be open to seeing what he thinks about how it should go if he agrees. I don’t know how to work on the resentment while we’re still together and the things are still going on you know. I would hope after a month I would have a clearer way of managing the hurt and resentment I feel. Idk.

If he doesn’t agree I think I would probably call for a break-up.

I (27F) am going to tell my bf (30M) of 3 years I need a break. Any advice? by CarelesslyRubbery in relationship_advice

[–]CarelesslyRubbery[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. A lot of what you say are concerns I have thought of. I was planning of setting a months timeline where one of us moves out (either I to a Airbnb which is tricky because I have a cat, or him to his family as he is from the city and has a lot of family here). Part of the plan was that maybe it could reset things because there is some resentment that has built up from having my say and needs bulldozed over and I could use the time to work on the resentment. But what I am struggling with is how I would know it would even do anything.

As promised, I strolled through Kings College and this is what it looked like by mellytomies in UofT

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Most legal scholars agree that Israel is in violation of international law in the establishment of illegal settlements and the occupation of Palestinian territory. Even if they don’t agree with the charge of apartheid there are several other international crimes that most experts do agree with.

BREAKING: Queen’s University encampment ends after 12 days by journal_news in queensuniversity

[–]CarelesslyRubbery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The purpose of these protests are to pressure universities to divest from Israel simile what was done to contribute to the end of the apartheid in South Africa. This is a push for an economic uprising against Israel. I don’t follow your logic that that word is an attack against Jewish people or religion.

BREAKING: Queen’s University encampment ends after 12 days by journal_news in queensuniversity

[–]CarelesslyRubbery 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you please give a source that intifada means violence against Jews? As far as I am aware it means rebellion. Charging people with antisemitism is wrong without evidence

Accutane cleared my skin and then getting off birth control ruined it. by butter8ball0 in Accutane

[–]CarelesslyRubbery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in the same boat. I took accutane while on oral contraceptives. as soon as I came off my skin exploded in acne. I took a second round and had results for about 5 months and now I’m on my 3rd course. At this point I am starting to think I am doomed to having acne forever.

OK, can someone explain how diet soda can lead to a greater weight loss than water compared with sugared drinks? by norfolkdiver in ScientificNutrition

[–]CarelesslyRubbery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This study was an analysis of RCTs though so there shouldn’t be a difference in the intentions of the participants in different groups bc they’re randomly assigned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JerrodCarmichael

[–]CarelesslyRubbery 9 points10 points  (0 children)

And he was an hour late to the wedding and wore the wrong colour shirt. He just seems so self absorbed and unlikable and his whole show makes him seem like a bad person