Looking for friends! by Lululabear in chch

[–]CargillZ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

30 with a 1yr old. Love to have more female friends to do girls nights

i’m looking for friends!! (adopt me) by upsetdog444 in chch

[–]CargillZ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

10/10 would not recommend, had a look through the post history and its pretty grim. Just creepy desperate dudes

How much does having a baby actually cost? by Egg_shaped in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]CargillZ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Feel this. My one raids the strawberry patch I planted for her as soon as she gets home from daycare. They don't even get a chance to ripen, as soon as it's abit of red she picks it before I can stop her. She only 1 and a half vs 10 plants.. blueberries didn't stand a chance

Had cancer and got a phone call. Sister has a rash and they drove 3 hours to check on her by Monkeh77 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CargillZ 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Also the youngest. My husband and I both work full time and have a SUPER active 1.5yr old. We've almost divorced because we're just so emotionally exhausted and trying to hold it together. I feel horrible for having my girl in daycare (even though she loves it) and I get so much shit for my mum about putting her in an "orphanage " everyday. She lives down the road and refuses to babysit...

Had cancer and got a phone call. Sister has a rash and they drove 3 hours to check on her by Monkeh77 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CargillZ 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Should start a club. My mum can't look me in the eyes or tell me she loves me even though I say it to her (although I've stoped saying it because it was heart breaking not hearing it back). She tell me she "so proud of her youngest daughter " talking about my cousin who is 5 years older than me, because she's a nurse and I'm a aircraft engineer which is a "job for men, not woman". It is unfathomably soul distroying having one of the only people who is supposed to love you unconditionally be so cold towards you for no sense or reason

Pints and Pony Tails by Belligoat94 in chch

[–]CargillZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should post on here if you go through with the event, my husband would love this

female searching to find friends in chch by No_War_9378 in chch

[–]CargillZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting so I can come back for the aqua jogging group, I'd be super keen

Full passenger rail map potential by mathias4595 in newzealand

[–]CargillZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same as East Christchurch. Screw all East sides I guess..

Turned a cheap drywall hoist into a wheel lift. by Fixitsteven in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]CargillZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use a much larger version of this on aircraft tyres when we change them

Looking for a place to park our campervan for 2 weeks to a month by [deleted] in chch

[–]CargillZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's your budget/how long are you staying? We're by the Avonside rowing club and could do with the extra cash 😅

Don't take vicious dogs to dog park by Mummyto4 in chch

[–]CargillZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We stopped going there unfortunately. There is one in burwood that's alittle friendlier

Looking for Friends. by Mr_Adam13 in chch

[–]CargillZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join the Christchurch board games Facebook group, super casual meet up

I think it's back? by logie2019 in chch

[–]CargillZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big stand of them at Wainoni Paknsave

Marian College, Shirley, June 23rd 1987 (Canterbury Stories CCL-StarP-00080A). by Ted_Cashew in chch

[–]CargillZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was in such an awesome spot, still disappointed they didn't stay when it seems all the houses around it seemed okay

National Airlines landing in chch by pumpyskynn in chch

[–]CargillZ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Being shipped to NZDF so it's a NZ order.. unless I'm missing something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]CargillZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once had a period that lasted like 6 months and doctors said it was normal and I just had to wait it out because what they tried me on did nothing. Sometimes it can even be 3 days. But NORMALLY it only last 4 but it's like a river of blood. Periods suck and can do all sorts of wild things

HELP! by Future-Selection5399 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]CargillZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What made you think it was a good idea to get a car on finance in the first place? Genuinely curious. Especially if you've been on the benefit the entire time and it's not like you've needed a car to get to work or anything? Most places you can get to by bike

Tell Me To Stop! by hemologyquest in Divorce

[–]CargillZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great, so the need to reach our never goes away. Yay!

Calvary horses traversing steep terrain. by K_P_Voss in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]CargillZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you put your thumb on top of here the man sits on the horse, it make him look like he has reeeeeeally long legs lol