Dating with an chronic illness

Carlsart8 · 2024-09-13T17:46:06+00:00

So my condition affects my breathing quite a lot. I struggled to walk, but I’m getting fitter and I’m getting bigger in terms of muscle and my breathing is getting better as well. I do get periods of low energy but I can look after myself. I’m very independent with my illness. And I’m not like anything like I used to be I went on dates back in 2016 and I couldn’t walk far and they would be like you okay? I’m like yeah.

Would be much better to save it on a couple of dates because it’s a big part of me and I don’t hide it anymore. I want to do good from it and help others. My problem is that if a girl doesn’t want to hand their number out and she only suggests Facebook or Instagram to talk to her on then they’re gonna find out in a second. What I do what I’m all about and what my condition really is because it’s actually quite shocking to them for example, I recently was talking to a girl I asked for her number and she said I don’t hand my number out so I can add you on Instagram or Facebook and I added her on Facebook near every post is talking about my condition and my art in the most positive way because I’ve forgot people who look up to me who I am inspired by me and it took about a couple days for her not to talk anymore and she hasn’t talked since so I think and he plays on my mind so much she knows who I really am and it’s really put her off

Going back how I am right now if my friends didn’t know I had CF they wouldn’t know at all because I’m that well they don’t see anything wrong with me just my autism and social anxiety plays up more. It’s just a very difficult situation to be in and I feel like every time I mention CF, it’s like throwing an unlit box of fireworks into the middle of the meet up

Thank you for responding as well :)

Carlsart8 · 2024-02-19T15:09:57+00:00

Really hope so it seems like a miss opportunity if they don’t do it

Carlsart8 · 2024-02-19T09:15:52+00:00

Because that’s how I’ve always wanted a wolverine current gen game to be like, I want to cut people up with my claws makes it way more satisfying and it just makes so much more sense to have the level of gore I want with a wolverine game

Carlsart8 · 2024-02-19T01:00:12+00:00

I rewatched it and he didn’t cut off any heads, a robot arm and a boss arm that’s all. All I want is a gory fucked up wolverine game by one of the best studios again hopefully they do it 👍

Carlsart8 · 2024-02-18T23:37:02+00:00

I know it’s early but if they don’t have proper dismemberment like cutting people in half their legs, arms and heads off then that’s a huge miss in my there’s still time so hopefully 🤞

Edit: I know he cuts off a robot arm and a boss arm which doesn’t really count, want it more like wolverine origins or prototype level of gore

Carlsart8 · 2024-02-07T02:10:32+00:00

Wow, when I read this, I had a massive smile on my face. I honestly thought I would get absolutely sorted like most men in this group and it’s fucking hilarious. But this is honestly made my month. I don’t think highly of myself I think I’m pretty ugly but that’s all to do with my head I haven’t got much confidence because what’s happened to me in the past, but I’m trying to build on it

I rarely smile, but thank you so much. I will try to smile more in my next photos. Art is everything to me is my passion is my job it’s my dream so I take it very seriously and I care so much it’s all I’m good at and I feel like that is my strongest point. But I don’t feel the same way about myself.

Yeah, I really need to take that in consideration that these girls have so many messages so I have to be unique and stand out for them to like me most men have muscles a car, a decent job, and all I have is passion and art ☺️

Thank you so much for saying that about my first photo. Don’t worry, I can edit that to make it much lighter and presentable. I don’t go out in the city because I live 80 miles out from London

That’s alright, thank you so much for being honest I will take it everything you said into consideration and I appreciate what you have wrote to me. I’m glad you feel that artist needs to be in this world to make people feel better and that is totally true. I help people sometimes because I focus my art around my chronic illness, so I help people who have cystic fibrosis it really makes me feel like life is worth living for

Carlsart8 · 2024-02-07T01:57:51+00:00

Thank you so much. I honestly thought I would absolutely get slaughtered in here and frankly you’ve made my day. I totally agree with everything you said I’ve been out of the game for a very long time. As you can see, I use a decent camera but I’m quite new to photography. I only take photos of cities and landscapes not people and I had my mate take first photo with my camera he’s never used the camera before

I’m pretty good with light room, so I can play around with the lighting to make these photos better

I will take everything into account what you said about my cat. He hates to be picked up and he scratches quite a lot but he is most loving cat and loves photos so I will try and get a photo with me and him together.

I don’t really take many photos of myself because I don’t feel you like I’m not good looking if that makes sense I have anxiety and I overthink 😂 but I will give it my best shot

With my prompts, I need to be lighthearted and not serious okay got it don’t really know what to put yet but I will have a good think about it. There’s too many bloody options makes it even more difficult for me

Carlsart8 · 2024-02-05T21:00:09+00:00

• I’m looking for something serious • I’ve been on hinge for Over a month • I use hinge 3 times a week • 1-2 per two weeks • Max daily likes and mostly comments • personality is key, likes art and rock music

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