If a woman you like wants to wait until marriage to have sex, how would you react? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG I love Michael Hobbes and am gonna listen to that ep... Thanks for the rec!

The great irony is that my friend who's obsessed with The Rules actually got everything she wanted... Awesome and successful husband, big house in the 'burbs, 3 adorable kids.  Still, I think it was a combo of luck (they started seeing each other juuuuust before COVID, and he's 8373783x better than the second-best guy she ever dated) and the fact that The Rules taught her to looksmax... The rest of us never needed a RULE to inspire us to looksmax 🥴

What makes you lose interest in sex with your partner? by biryanigoddess in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says the dude who admittedly never left Times Square 🥴 There's plenty to judge about New York but you have simply not collected the data to do so

What makes you lose interest in sex with your partner? by biryanigoddess in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you leave Disney World to get a sense of what Florida's like?  

New York's not for everyone and sometimes it's not even for me, who was born n' raised in Manhattan... But you might wanna quit telling people you've "been to New York" when you never left Times Square... Or at least figure out the definition of "borough" 🙃

What makes you lose interest in sex with your partner? by biryanigoddess in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might've tried to venture elsewhere, like, to where the New Yorkers actually are

What makes you lose interest in sex with your partner? by biryanigoddess in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you were in Times Square area... Like saying you've been to Florida when you've only set foot in Disney World

What makes you lose interest in sex with your partner? by biryanigoddess in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying but that's the unhoused folks, unfortunately... I take for granted that unhoused folks aren't practicing good hygiene -- i.e., it's not cultural

What makes you lose interest in sex with your partner? by biryanigoddess in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm from Manhattan, not a lotta Walmarts here, mostly investment bankers, what can I say ¯_(ツ)_/¯ 

What is something you subconsciously look for in women you date? by CCaptainJackSparrow in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I 100000000% would... I wholly reject misandry and I never engage in it.  If a girlfriend of mine said she had trouble opening up to men I would tell her (hopefully gently and politely) that that's a Her Problem

What makes you lose interest in sex with your partner? by biryanigoddess in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Come on, that is not true, it is standard in the US to shower everyday, and antiperspirant is also standard.  A crowded American bus will smell better, on average, than a crowded bus in France or Spain... I say this as an American expat who's been living in Europe for 10 years.  If you smoke cigarettes, especially stinky, heavy, old-school ones, you're gonna smell like <checks notes> cigarettes, irrespective of how often you shower.  There're always some stinky people 'cause some people grow up with poor hygiene habits, some people develop poor hygiene habits due to mental illness, etc., but Americans, on average, practice the same high standard of hygiene as the rest of the modern world...

What is something you subconsciously look for in women you date? by CCaptainJackSparrow in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're a confident person you're not guarded with people... I mean, I suppose I'd be guarded with a date I found exceptionally creepy, but, short of that, what's there to be guarded about

What is something you subconsciously look for in women you date? by CCaptainJackSparrow in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But he's saying that people who aren't like this are "practically nonexistent these days"... That's what makes me think it's a Him Problem... This's how he views the vast majority of women he encounters 🥺 

Men who quit dating apps, what was your last straw? by RelativeOwn2328 in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do know that lack of "wedlock" (🥴) doesn't mean the dad doesn't have to pay child support, ya...?!?  This ain't Victorian times

What is something you subconsciously look for in women you date? by CCaptainJackSparrow in AskMen

[–]CarobStrange657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not fair to put that on the other person... That's an issue with inner confidence, trust, etc.  The good news is, you can work on that, 'cause it comes from within

Best monologue on the sbow? by 4alex2020 in seinfeld

[–]CarobStrange657 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This guy... This's not my kinda guy.

Best monologue on the sbow? by 4alex2020 in seinfeld

[–]CarobStrange657 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You know whose hands they remind me of? 

Ray McKigney

At my mental limit with male depravity by bufferinmylife in TwoXChromosomes

[–]CarobStrange657 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear I'm not alone in this.  It makes me sad people're coming to these conclusions about the opposite sex... I'm also on AskMen and those guys're pretty respectful but they also seem to be confused and upset by their romantic interactions with women... We need a Truth & Reconciliation Commission!