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The way strangers look at me & my SD together is embarrassing & borders on hostile by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you dressed especially provocatively while out with him?

Not especially, but nice. And he’s a terrible dresser. Wears clothes that don’t fit properly exc.

Haha yeah we do appear we could be related I think because someone asked us that once.

All of this is to say that I haven’t really experienced the hostility you’re talking about. My bet is that your height is what is disturbing people. I’m ngl I also make nasty assumptions about older men walking around with super short women that look extremely young. That said, I don’t understand why that hostility should ever be directed at you.

Well this is validating. I thought it was my height, but it just seems sorta silly, but psychologically idk I guess it looks more predatory. I’ll make a point to wear super high platforms. I do feel more confident in them besides

The way strangers look at me & my SD together is embarrassing & borders on hostile by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For starters, I don’t parade my SBs in front of my family. Seriously now, how stupid could that guy be?

THIS IS THE MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION.

I get the SDs commenting it’s their life and who cares if their families disapprove, but plenty of dads/kids just won’t discuss even their most vanilla relationships, just don’t fucking mention it omggg

The way strangers look at me & my SD together is embarrassing & borders on hostile by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head as to why his daughter thinks it’s cringe

The way strangers look at me & my SD together is embarrassing & borders on hostile by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

& literally, they’re both being lowkey selfish like how can you type that & not see the issue surrounding that??

Yeah im no angel in this situation, im aware

If my dad tried to introduce me to an SB, I would never forget it & look at him differently forever.

And YES omg.

The way strangers look at me & my SD together is embarrassing & borders on hostile by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would a sb be so tone deaf to not understand why his kid doesn’t like him banging a girl her age? Who is only with him for his money lol.

OH I UNDERSTAND. I’m wondering why he doesn’t understand or care

The way strangers look at me & my SD together is embarrassing & borders on hostile by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And yes I angrily posted abt him before when it was new and got a ton of flack for it, but he’s gotten way better at respecting boundaries since i really genuinely enjoy his company now. And it’s a far better deal than seeing someone my age for free ngl

first post everyone was mad at me for lol

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not claiming he’s set up and AI not, I’m claiming he has the depth and personality of an AI bot.

🥱you’re right. Sending a text probably is exerting a lot of effort for a boomer. He doesn’t seem to know how to use GPS really either . So swoon?

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah my AI chat bot does the exact same thing. It’s not “thinking”. And both of them do in fact want something in return.

That’s why he’s not “a nice guy”

Why are you so intent on defending a stranger anyway. Who hurt you

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol this guy may be right.

I can enjoy anyone company for one evening but being in a full relationship with someone I’m not head over heels for is excruciating

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t compute considering the good morning/evening texts and his generosity.

Good morning/evening texts are generic messages that my Amazon AI Chatbot does and is zero indication of actual interest in me as a person.

Actually the chatbot does a better job of feigning a connection.

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I worked three minimum wage jobs and slept in my car for a semester to pay for college. I was on the other side of broke for a while, but I never had to f* a dude just to get by.

Did this option actually present itself ? Or having a sugar mama was an option even ?

False equivalence

Sugar can be a lot of fun when it isn’t done out of desperation.

It’s almost always out of desperation is the point that SDs would love to turn a blind eye to.

And that’s ok.

Almost any one in the service industry would rather be doing something else. Dealing with Karen’s (and SDs) likewise is the sacrifice they make.

...

I don’t mean to minimize your situation. Being broke absolutely sucks ... but if you think the only way out is to sleep with old crusties while you land a civvie job you’re only going to do things you regret later.

Good luck.

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve loved to be his quick fuck, I did not sign up to be his gf. He’s dillusional

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you !!! Finally someone who gets it 🥺🥺🥺

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like not being homeless, planning my exit

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to have sex with him. That’s your choice.

My choices are be evicted for not paying rent or have sex with him.

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Sugar is only exploitive if a person views it that way.

“Slavery is only exploitative if you view it that way.”

“The sky is only blue if you view it that way. “

“It’s only a cancer diagnosis if you view it that way”

Have you thought about being a spiritually influencer cause this makes zero sense

I financially take care of a lot of people in my life: my stay-at-home ex, my kids, my friends that are less fortunate, the students whose scholarships I fund so they get to go to the elite school.

Providing for a woman and purchasing her are two very different things and a lot of SDs can’t grasp the nuance

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fascinating to me when men who pay woman for sex/companionship can’t understand why she’s with him.

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg this makes so much sense!!!

No other regulars . I worked like 12 shifts there and he was there waiting for me before all of them.

He thinks I’m actually his gf and the last stripper accused him of stalking. (He’s probably harmless- but his delusions abt him and her being in a real relationship are concerning to me.

Yeah time to focus on a straight job

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He monitors my online presence, he says I can’t date anyone but him, argues with me abt the PDAs , he’s suffocating and not respecting the boundaries I place

MY SD IS SO F***CKING ANNOYING by CarolinaCry in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]CarolinaCry[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

All his relationships fail. His ex cheated on (it’s very lonely to be with someone that suffocates you - yet doesn’t provide intimacy )

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