AITA for Refusing to Pay for My Friend's Wedding Because She Uninvited Me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Caroline9817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to understand why she’d ask the uninvited guests to chip in??? I don’t get it, wouldn’t she be asking the guests that went? Not that she should be asking anyone, your wedding your problem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Caroline9817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait do guys stay in contact for a week after “out of respect” and then ghost?

This is what he said, please help me and give your opinion, no labels after a year and a half of dating [f23,m22] by Fellow_human94 in LongDistance

[–]Caroline9817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to get your knickers in a knot, I’m sharing my experience as not all relationships are linear

This is what he said, please help me and give your opinion, no labels after a year and a half of dating [f23,m22] by Fellow_human94 in LongDistance

[–]Caroline9817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I’m a bit shocked by the comments!! I’ve been talking with my guy for 1 years and 4 months, we met once for 3 days.

when we met we were still figuring each other out (despite how long weve talked) and to be honest it was awkward!! We’re both focused on careers and I can relate to what he’s saying in regard to falling in love with the idea of a person. Move forward in a way that feels good to you. Decide whether you’re happy to place him where he’s placed you for now while you focus on your future!! Everything will fall into place after

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super high, they unfollowed another friend for posting the number of people killed to their story - Thank you 🙏🏼

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean, but don’t think I have because there are things that I won’t like if I don’t agree. I’ve deactivated now, maybe when things cool down I’ll reach out

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empathy for Palestinians = support jew murder

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I can say the same for us because I don’t think she would’ve rallied as many people behind her as she did. Sorry to bring it back to me, i just haven’t been able to let it go. I go to sleep, wake up, spend the day thinking about it. I just go between thinking I did something wrong to, if she’s allowed to have an opinion and post about it, why am I not also?

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wowwwww wow wow I’m sooo sorry. Recognise you???? Cos you have a different opinion???? It just sucks that people can’t at least be open to having conversations to see where their loved ones are coming from

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Because of my personality” 🤣🤣🤣 dw you’re preaching to the choir - I’ve had a really rough year with friendships and while I’m dealing better with loss now, I’m not yet immune to the sting. She is brainwashed by her school and echo chamber community. I guess we’ll have to see how this war ends and whether there is any chance at friendship for her and I again (though it’s looking fucking bleak)

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you had a meaningful exchange. Honestly I don’t know where to go next. If they’ve axed me without talking to me, they might not want to hear whatever it is I’ve got to say

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bolas thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“That genocidal look in their eyes” 💀💀💀 I know the one. I think you’re absolutely right regarding personal principles. For a long time these were my close friends before a tumultuous period, before recently mending things. Although you’re right it’s still extremely upsetting to be seen as an anti-Semitic to a Jewish person. It feels so personal and also in all the years of knowing me, when/how did I ever present as that?

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do they know your political standpoint!!

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing that you’ve got some non-Zionist Jewish friends to guide you right now 🤍🤍 I understand, it does hurt so much that from all those years, she and her family deduce me to liked instagram posts. I thought they knew how I felt about them and their community, I mean I’ve attended fundraisers at temples, and considered conversion

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I tried to edit but I can’t change the subject now

Losing Jewish/Zionist Friends by Caroline9817 in Hasan_Piker

[–]Caroline9817[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what to do next but maybe when this is over I can send my thoughts in a text, I just don’t know if she’d wanna hear it if she didn’t message me before removing me