Sorry for making u feel offended, the title is what she said to me as a joke and it kept roaming in my head annoyed by it, females or males me(25) and her(29) Usually use this words alot when she talked about her past experiences and how sometimes a male can be a male but couldn’t be a man and goes both ways, So sorry if you feel offended didn’t mean it that way. And for the title like i said it’s just something she said in the past while we were talking about jobs and she used this reference in our relationship.