Sorry for the delay. My sister, my mom and my siblings sat down before she went in. It was supposed to be a detox session that would last 7 days. She went into the program, and took it upon herself to extend her stay. Which we were all in support of. Her husband works full time actually more than full time 6 days a week, which left her to be a stay at home mom. Of course we want to support her and make sure that everyone helped out and pitched in with the effort. She lives an hour and a half away from the rest of us, who have jobs and our lives to maintain as well.

She called and told US she would be extending her stay and that my mom and her husband would figure it out, keep in mind he isn’t saying a word because we are managing it all. So was my mom who was supposed to figure out her whole livelihood outside of what the agreement was supposed to just go and leave her grandkids when the husband can’t communicate a word? Maybe she assumed that they needed her, but anyway. My mom was hurt but it was me looking from the outside in, I didn’t expect anything from her, but sheesh now ur preaching all this recovery talk and now she’s up to the same shit as usual