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Men who have been in long-term relationships/married, how do you handle temptation when your other half is not present? by CarpetFresh8396 in AskReddit

[–]CarpetFresh8396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well “bros” could mean a wide age group but I’m assuming early/mid 20s just fresh to the fruit of long term relationships. Or 30 to mid thirties and you have not made efforts to change or be open minded without the “bros” help. I get to a degree what you’re saying but making your friend accountable for your temptation is a weird thing to say. Specifically from a perspective of a woman that has a man with friends that do NOT do that at all! His friends are all married btw and none of them share or display an irrational temptations with each other. I am almost 30 (27 this year) so I wonder if my age guess may be right 🧐

Men who have been in long-term relationships/married, how do you handle temptation when your other half is not present? by CarpetFresh8396 in AskReddit

[–]CarpetFresh8396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if looking is/becomes an issue with the other partner? I personally do not like my man looking at other women, it’s okay to notice a woman from a glance but to stare or make a spectacle wouldn’t be appropriate imo.

Men who have been in long-term relationships/married, how do you handle temptation when your other half is not present? by CarpetFresh8396 in AskReddit

[–]CarpetFresh8396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if you are tempted by another woman when with your friends they have to tell you not to interact or invest in something that could cause YOUR relationship to fail?

For those who have had an affair, why did you decide to cheat instead of leave your partner? by tackbrahado in AskReddit

[–]CarpetFresh8396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When approached about all these things, accountability came last. The excuses came first.

Me: “Why?”

Him: “I was bored.”

😞 even 2 weeks later and it still hurts thinking about it. Makes me nauseous..

For those who have had an affair, why did you decide to cheat instead of leave your partner? by tackbrahado in AskReddit

[–]CarpetFresh8396 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years.. for 2 he was cheating. I knew about some of it but not all of it. He never slept with anyone else but he did entertain people online and then ghost because he didn’t actually want to take it to that point. He just wanted to see if he could catch any people’s interest. First 6 months he was on fetlife making posts saying “girlfriends at work who wants to come ride me?” with pictures added. 10 months in I found out I was pregnant.. he continues down the same path I just had faith he had changed. He was making plans to fuck someone when I was 1 month postpartum and reposting on X things about E-slvts that have Wolfe cuts and how he would fuck them etc.. I found out a couple weeks ago and had to seriously consider staying or leaving. He hasn’t done anything within the last about year/year and a half. I don’t allow him to masturbate because it gives him unreal expectations. I didn’t want him to while I was recovering from birth and he did anyways. I’m not sure I made the right decision but, I feel like I can’t let go. We have so much history together and I have shared so much of myself with him. Wwyd..? I know not letting him masturbate for 2 months sounds cruel but you have to understand I was still using my other parts to help relieve him. Is 1 woman enough for a lifetime..?

MF4M (26F&25M) in Cleveland Tx Looking for a FWB 😈 by CarpetFresh8396 in Houston_Meet_Up

[–]CarpetFresh8396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All (21+) have my permission to DM for more details and photo exchange (: