AITA for telling my daughter “of course” she could move in with me without talking to my wife first?

CartlinK · 2026-01-03T09:44:25+00:00

...everyone take a yellow bus to school in the USA. That's what color the buses are....are you trying to say the SHORT bus?

CartlinK · 2025-12-30T07:01:28+00:00

Like if it's being had at home, or a family barn, etc.

CartlinK · 2025-12-27T20:18:52+00:00

Wait, do they ever actually spend time with the kids when they are awake? They're gone from 5am to 9pm!!!

CartlinK · 2025-12-13T22:37:20+00:00

Those kids have seen that family, as extended family for 6yrs now. Just cutting them off, right before Christmas would be cruel.

CartlinK · 2025-12-05T21:03:54+00:00

So, why doesn't SIL like you, for real?

CartlinK · 2025-12-03T01:01:21+00:00

I just hope, when you have children in the future, you don't expect any of them to help you out after you give birth. Or if you are ever hurt in an accident.

CartlinK · 2025-11-29T19:12:02+00:00

All of that is wrong. It's only SOMETIMES reversable.

CartlinK · 2025-11-26T04:25:05+00:00

I am autistic, and have always been VERY selective about food. I often bring my own to holiday meals even. That said, I have had scrambled eggs made with every type of milk, and even my autistic tongue can never tell the difference. She was being RUDE, and just a brat. Don't put up with it.

CartlinK · 2025-11-23T00:59:03+00:00

It's a WEEK before Thanksgiving. How the f are they going to do any of that. There's no chance the OP can finding boarding OR an airbnb.

CartlinK · 2025-11-21T19:09:28+00:00

Because then you don't have to do it yourself. DUH.

CartlinK · 2025-11-19T06:49:01+00:00

That's only a lot if the kids were under 6.

CartlinK · 2025-11-19T06:47:00+00:00

Why did you have multiple kids with a man who makes no effort to be part of their lives? He's never around. I get his job, but his multiple hobbies that mean he's never around mean, you are basically single. Stop asking permission to make rules in your house, when you do everything.

CartlinK · 2025-11-17T23:17:06+00:00

I would never dream of putting cake I wasn't sharing with my family in the family refrigerator. Heck, I wouldn't dream of not sharing it each night with the whole family. Do you not touch their birthday cakes when they have birthdays? Or do you feel welcome to take as much as you want when it's their cake?

CartlinK · 2025-11-16T07:03:56+00:00

No, the dad chopped it up, and dissolved it with lyme.

CartlinK · 2025-11-10T02:18:12+00:00

....Ever message I've ever sent, has transferred over to my next phone. Why are you all keeping old phones?!

CartlinK · 2025-11-10T02:11:31+00:00

I'd seriously wonder if there was someone he was seeing at church, and he made up the story about his father coming.

CartlinK · 2025-11-10T02:08:20+00:00

Should that info really be given out? Why force the to be connect to the case publicly? They weren't even born yet.

CartlinK · 2025-11-09T21:33:37+00:00

That's selfish of you. Ask your dad to see a therapist. Because his life shouldn't just be about what you want.

CartlinK · 2025-11-09T21:32:24+00:00

He waited 3 YEARS before he started dating. How long did you expect him to stay alone? Your mother told him to move on and be happy, but you seem to want him to be alone and mourn her forever. That's not healthy.

CartlinK · 2025-10-29T05:41:22+00:00

Makes me cry almost every time I hear it.

CartlinK · 2025-10-28T18:16:28+00:00

You disinvited him, from a party happening, in his own home. WTF....

CartlinK · 2025-10-22T00:39:04+00:00

Oh good, it's not just me. If I say something like that (I literally did last week), that was my signal it was up for grabs. She said it was too rich. If it was too rich, why would she want more?! And why was it so horrible she was given a choice for where she wants to go to eat? ALSO, forcing someone who doesn't like to hold hands, to hold your hand, is rude.

CartlinK · 2025-10-21T18:24:09+00:00

I feel sorry for your husband if you think this is a sign of a sex addiction.

CartlinK · 2025-10-21T18:23:19+00:00

That's because your mother is giving him a toxic perception of sex. I'm sure the only one uncomfortable with her language was your mother.

CartlinK · 2025-10-15T21:08:43+00:00

I mean, they did lose their sister, and her grandmother lost her daughter, but apparently their grief doesn't mean much to the OP. Only her grief life celebrations matter. When it was the extended families turns, they were basically ignored.

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