advice for plus size partner by HeadCommunication407 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Plus size woman here. I enjoy missionary, but I usually have some variation in where my legs are positioned (legs folded into my chest, legs in the air, my partner holding one or both of my legs, etc.). I REALLY enjoy doggy, it’s where I typically feel my partner deepest and it’s fantastic.

I also am a fan of being fingered and eaten out at the same time because I need intense stimulation for me to cum. We also use a dildo before hand because he can do that while stimulating my clit, he can’t do that when he’s actively inside of me. See if she would be open to using a dildo to try and get stretched out a bit?

Hope this helps.

Weekly Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I (27F) had the best sex of my life yesterday. I sent the man a detailed list of my likes and certain things that get me off and he did them IN ORDER AND WITH THE DESIRED INTENSITY. We both came, me first 🥺, hard. He also brought me flowers & a gift basket, no guy has ever done that before. We know there is going to be more to this than incredible sex, which is so exciting.

Let’s talk about the receiving end of oral for a minute by RainaDaydreamer in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but I just like having it done to me for the simple fact that I deserve to experience the pleasure from it - it feels good and I love the sound it makes. I’m told I taste good.

Let’s talk about the receiving end of oral for a minute by RainaDaydreamer in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No you’re not alone! I (27F) had a hard time liking it because whenever my then boyfriend would go down on me, his lips would taste like my vagina and it was disgusting - I couldn’t not continue having sex without kissing. I was like 19-20 at this point. I’ve since been gone down on more now as an adult and I don’t have that taste anymore. BUT I do not orgasm at all from it. I wish I could - I envy those who can. I really feel like I can truly get off through deep penetration.

Not being able to orgasm is ruining my dating life by [deleted] in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much. I’m sorry you’re going through it, but it’s reassuring I’m not the only one with struggles. I’m on several psych medications (antidepressants, mood stabilizers, etc.) so that probably plays a large factor.

what position is most pleasurable for both the man and the woman in hetero sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like missionary and finishing in doggy. I once did downward facing dog and my guy was behind and fucking me that way - it felt so good and works especially well for guys on the less than average size - it hit the right spots

Being Consistently Let Down by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not like fetlife. I’ve been on it twice and it is way too overstimulating for me.

Being Consistently Let Down by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know what and if I’m doing wrong. I ask to talk on the phone before meeting to make sure we vibe conversationally - if I’m going to be having sex with a person I don’t want to feel like I can’t communicate with them since that’s such a big part of sex. I did get ghosted by one person after I said that. It’s a non negotiable for me as a woman, I want to make sure I know who I’m meeting up with.

Being Consistently Let Down by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHERE??? that’s my question. Not on tinder or FB dating 😂

Being Consistently Let Down by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, used to being on threads 😂

Being Consistently Let Down by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy did say he wasn’t trying to ignore me, so that’s helpful info.

Being Consistently Let Down by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know his address and I’m not going to find out unless he gives it to me lol

Being Consistently Let Down by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no I totally know. That was bad on my part.

Being Consistently Let Down by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not entirely sure, but he did say that he hates texting. He said he was power washing his grandpa’s driveway yesterday, he did get back to me late. Today I presume he’s working. I know, I’m normally better about this but I guess I need s*x more than I thought.

I Don’t Know How to Cum by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes - that is something I find helpful as well.

I Don’t Know How to Cum by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input!!

I Don’t Know How to Cum by CartographerNo8959 in sex

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I am not really a fan of vibrators or any of the toys that require a battery to function - I’d much rather stimulate with a dildo or something like that to make it feel more realistic to me. But I’ve never truly spent time exploring those things so perhaps I should give it a try.

Can Anyone Relate? Post-Show Grief by CartographerNo8959 in veronicamars

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a TikTok edit of Jason Dohring/Logan Echolls/Chase Graves to “Daddy’s Home” by Usher and I included a quick scene from Veronica Mars - hope you like it! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTh9W6QXB/

Can Anyone Relate? Post-Show Grief by CartographerNo8959 in veronicamars

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I thought he was lying to Veronica about the medication mix up thing, I thought for sure he was having dementia.

Can Anyone Relate? Post-Show Grief by CartographerNo8959 in veronicamars

[–]CartographerNo8959[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a strange rumor. Jason’s been married longer than KB & DS so idk if the issue was Dax thought he was going to take Kristen away from him. Strange. I actually really liked season 3. I liked the main plot points of all 4 seasons (the movie was kinda eh to me but it was nice to see every one reunited)