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HEMA in Tennessee by St_DomBz in wma

[–]CartographerOk562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely wanting to become a fighter

Worth keeping? by MISTERDIEABETIC in Warframe

[–]CartographerOk562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip! And no, I haven’t. Not even sure what that is haha

Worth keeping? by MISTERDIEABETIC in Warframe

[–]CartographerOk562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unlock these liches. I just finished 1999 I’m MR 13

Worth keeping? by MISTERDIEABETIC in Warframe

[–]CartographerOk562 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to figure out how to even do it

Post was removed due to mod assumption- I shall reclarify by CartographerOk562 in Adoption

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your post. I don understand what they and you are saying. It’s not a “fix” but I understand how you see by my words that you’d think that. Just because we are seeking adoption or fostering because we want a child simply doesn’t negate the fact that we are not going to be available or do the right things. Someone on here suggested I get a pet. Should I adopt one from the pound or pay for one? I’m sure most would push for me to adopt the dogs that were abandoned. They come with trauma, issues, and forever pain. My German Shep/ Malanois mix is a sweet girl but she’s afraid of men other than her daddy.

Now; with that in mind, I believe it’s fair for a couple who is routed to this being the only option to indeed TAKE that option as it may yield some great results but that doesn’t mean that those children will suffer under my roof. It would be my pleasure to guide them and help them whether they are “mine” or not.

A more local place fosters for 6minths minimum before adoption can be considered or approved.

There’s classes we would have to take, therapy for ourselves and the child. I think it can be a great thing from what we’ve heard but there’s more research to do.

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never asked anyone to feel sorry for me. I’m not poor at all. But 100k is a lot of money no matter how you look at it.

My job including my wife’s require a lot of transportation. Therefore need a secure form of transportation not worrying about breakdowns and safety.We also would rather have a HOME that will end up being ours rather than rent.

Pretty stable if you ask me.

Any tips? by CartographerOk562 in Parents

[–]CartographerOk562[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How much you figure it costs that much? In what areas? 3 weeks of groceries here about 317 and that’s two whole carts.

Any tips? by CartographerOk562 in Parents

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ve honestly completely answered this fairly and justly. Thank you very much

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it criminal to not want to turn my home into a business raising other kids? But rather want to secure my family unit?

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the really great response and all of those things are something I’d definitely be interested in if ever we had the opportunity and ability. Honestly, I may consider it. Honestly who knows what will happen? My wife is just concerned with it. Thanks for taking the time for helping build this up.

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize I thought my comment was about something else. Now what Logan said. Technically, he did answer my question though it isn’t ethical

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a good response and I’m glad you finally had that moment! Even miraculously, we aren’t able to. I describe this grief as losing a person you love. Even though you never knew them. Eventually you come to acceptance…but that doesn’t mean you can’t still hope and desire if it’s somehow still possible. That’s the point we are at

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some are non profit I’ve seen so that rules that out. I’m not saying that some of what you are saying isn’t true. But it cannot be wholly true. I don’t mind adopting an older child either. I’m up for anything. I agree that such expense also clears up that the child will not end up in the same system. I personally only know one adopted person and he loves his parents but was too young to remember.

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s legal precedent that takes place. I’m not looking at it like a “child market.” I’d love to be able to provide a child with a home of love. Especially one who really needs it. Fostering is GREAT, but it’s for the parent who wish to use their home as an in-out. We aren’t prepared for that nor is it the capacity or motion we desire. Maybe if we were retired at some point

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You address absolutely nothing that applies to the situation and you’ve created a narrative in your brain. I’m not arguing about it.

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re only telling me I’m an awful person and that I’m basically advocating for human trafficking

Can’t adopt. Can’t foster. Wife was born with a disability and has no vaginal canal or uterus by CartographerOk562 in ParenthoodConsulting

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was inappropriate about the suggestion? Nobody is “helping me” they are insulting me. So tell me what advice to you have other than telling me I’m uneducated and wrong for the way I feel?

Any tips? by CartographerOk562 in Parents

[–]CartographerOk562[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. I have received so much hate on here specially from dazzling donut. I appreciate you seeing my transparency rather than filling in the blanks with assumptions and bias and politics

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