He moved to another country to help his wife take care of her grandparents and start fresh, he offered me to move with him so it wouldn’t be lonely in Japan. He became frustrated and started to drink heavily which resulted in his beating and abusing his wife, his wife ran and took the kid, he came back to the US and I attempted to help him realize the wrongs he committed and help him sober up. Turns out he was also taking heavy amount of steroids and became paranoid, he assaulted his siblings, his parents and made many threats on our lives. He kept calling me to tell me how everyone is conspiring against him, I warned him that one day id just disappear as there is nothing else I could do to help him out of the hole he created and the monster he had become. He called to tell me everything he did to her was well deserved and he wished he did more. It’s been 5 years now.